These types of people should be avoided when the new baby

These people often look at the issue through the eyes exaggerated. At you tired and losing sleep because of the new baby born crybaby or not good sleep, then the response to excessive attention to pity will do parents become upset. A few people have the habit of asking new mothers things like: "You Look terrible too, make sense during the night to take the" or "I'm sure you are exhausted enough", or "Formal nights alone breastfeeding make lonely?" ...

In fact, they have a good idea of when interest and understand what you are experiencing. However, this only makes a new mother born-with the mood is emotional, as seen in their tragic situation.

What are you-a new person do I need to do then is to thank them for the interest but at the same time expressing the things you are happy to have that baby. They will see less pity you and everything becomes softer.

2. all people find it difficult to look away

You will see the extreme stress to meet these people. In fact they may be more experienced people, but all they see is hard. You have to try new forever forged for baby to sleep the whole night, or a delicious NAP time. So, someone said "some day, the constant cry teething again, no way tempted to be" or when baby is happy with the new toy, they say "what is that bored now", or if you have a daughter like me, then I'm sure 9/10 the mother will be very irritating when anyone says "have a daughter , when would it know dating is very headstrong, trouble will... ".

You not enjoy the results that you achieved at the present time, then these people are provoking a whole mountain of the trouble and the future not bright.

How to deal with these people? You just have to smile and say: "I'm just enjoying this time only".

3. Those who too love baby

A lot of people are very fond of children. To the extent that when met, then hugged tight green throughout, closing the baby, Kiss the baby. Or somebody like a joke for older jokes by juggling kid on high. This is very dangerous if such malpractice is not up support the baby, or babies under 2 years old yet hard bone, the juggling, no godfather for baby can cause high risks. In addition, the nerves in your baby's brain is very vulnerable, just juggling is in danger of bumping into his skull and causing breakage.

Thus, when encountering people who like this, you should refuse to gently but firmly filled.

4. The person or teach about parenting

These are people who are always confident about remaining breeding her perfect. They always share and recommend that you do this or the other should not. You be confident in the political knowledge and his instincts. Can those with or teach about how parenting is also vital and yet totally right. Furthermore every kid has the expression and character different. There is not a perfect method for all babies. Don't do it yourself messing up because the severely or more tips when very contrary.

If you are a mother who is not confident and no major opinion, surely you will fall into a mess and doesn't believe in their abilities again-this is worse than many.

So, I have some advice for you is to please remind yourself: every child is different. Each mother has a way of raising children of their own as long as you love me, eager for the best things and hard to learn the knowledge.=