Tips for parents how to take advantage of the opportunity to teach the child independence

About 6-7 months old baby, be aware that other baby with mother and baby to be left alone. This can cause your baby to fear of being separated from his mother and reached "peak" in 2 year old.

When the baby understands that there is no next face at her mother but will come back with a baby, baby continue to have fun and build the spirit of independence. Up to the age of 1, the independence of the baby development blossomed enough to cause a number of problems: want to make your own way and reveal even more angry.

 Spend time teaching

Take the time to ' baby ' short circuit trainer started working doing things as adults is the first step to help baby to self-awareness and greater awareness of the self serve the needs themselves. "Each week, take the new baby outlines a familiar. For example, With small children, parents can teach baby or toy cleaner for dirty clothes into ... Also with older children, please suggest your baby bed or self help parents clean the dinner table ...

Should split this work into small steps and patiently teach the kid how to do. After the child was more precise, more skillful ... Please treat it as a ' mission ' that boy must complete ", Amy McCready, founder of Positive Parenting Solutions organization, advised the parents.

Praise the efforts of the child

"Even if the results of the work of her excellence, parents should still smile and be happy with her efforts," Dr. Frances Walfish said.

Short period is an important period and started working in the core to gradually form and personality development for children. By that, though babies do little things for, such as: self pouring drinking water ... then the parents should still reward the baby with the compliment of goodwill, in order to enhance the self-reliance for the baby.

Absolutely no criticism, do not use the words "not to be! Break now! Gone! The late peanuts! ... "with the baby when baby is learning a skill.

Teaching children thinking

Teach your baby to know something or, what's bad, what's reasonable, what's not ... For example, parents can use a bear do 'cast' to teach the child how to wear clothes. Bears should have worn all on foot, wearing on the hands, or wear on the left who team up early. When the track that scene, going wrong right speech, right like this.

Or when preparing out the way, parents can ask: "today it is cold too, I need a wool hat? We should warm shoes or gasoline-knit baby? " And thanks for taking the baby out. Meaning instead ordered the baby do the work: "The dress away, his shoes go...!" my mother should navigate to the action indirectly.

Limited help

Parents cannot always embankment embankment side of the 24 h/day and 7 days/week. So, don't ever roll hands helpers what they themselves can do. Let baby self seat belts, shoes, drinking milk get dressed ... If my mother is afraid of to the DIY baby will take more time, get up early more than 15, 30 minutes is ' ok '.

In particular, instead of just ' handheld ' let baby self says they will do – this helps children feel master challenge. Of course, if the baby needs a few hints or help to complete a mission then the parents always ready!

Sometimes also have to express the uncompromising

Baby tossing toys out that won't move again, intentionally water shooting into the clothes when washing hands alone. You stay calm for your baby knows that you are not satisfied, and went into the other room, but definitive statement: "children to toys like that, I'm very sad. Now go wash the bowl, toy cleanup here on the box. I will return to see you going ". The other place you leave out causing the child to terminate was like the joke release or express stubborn with adults.

Your role

Baby House you should be free to explore life around; so, let's give baby a safe play environment. Instead of running behind the saying "no" every time the baby intend to touch something, you take out the dangerous things out of reach of children.

Encourage independence for baby by creating what the kid can do it alone. For little to choose between the two sets of clothes, snacks or afternoon activities, private use for baby Bowl spoon in every meal.

Remember that your baby wants to "escape" from his mother not due to stubborn kid or need some love . While babies like to be independent, still longing for the love of their parents. Encourage the baby to do something but not indifferent when baby running again thanks to his mother for help. The baby should be a parent shape in a long time.

Signs should be concerned

Although the new baby off of you so worried when temporarily away from his mother but should talk to your doctor if you see baby panic, unable to do anything without my mom next to baby or inconsolable when parents leave with the baby care.=