When you ask, do not say 'My family is very poor', learn this father so he can be confident when he grows up

For young children, parents are the most reliable. So when I listen to my parents, I say 'no money', 'my family is poor' . they will believe that it is true, leading to an obsession with money from a young age, feel self with your classmates when you grow up, and then gradually become the 'slave' of money.

Therefore, when you ask, but your parents want to refuse, the refusal must be said very carefully.

For parents who wonder 'How to get it right', can refer to the saying of a Chinese father:

Accordingly, this father shared, one day when he saw his 8-year-old son go to grade 3 to tell his father, 'I want to buy toys but can't. Why is my house so poor? ', The father was startled to realize, so long ago I answered him wrongly.

The father decided to correct it when he replied: 'Boys, in fact, our family is not too poor. But the money in the house is because my mother and father worked very hard to earn. Also, parents can freely decide and what they want to buy or have, must be approved by their parents.

If you want to go out, buy anything you like, you will have to try and work hard so that when you grow up, you will create wealth for yourself. At that time, whatever you buy is comfortable. '

The father's answer will be a good suggestion for parents when dealing with demanding situations from small children.

Experts recommend how to behave when the child demands excessively as follows:

Make your face cold in front of your child's sulky game

Whenever your child starts whining, you should keep calm and ignore their actions. Being angry also makes him understand that he is attracting attention and thus he is more enthusiastic to reinforce that whining.

As soon as her cries began to take off, she told her decisively: "Stop now! I don't like to hear the cries of pleas.

Tell the consequences if you keep going

Ignoring the boys' sulk, the girl is definitely not going to have a lasting effect. What moms should do is show them immediately the initial consequences for fearful children to refrain from pleading in vain.

For example, when the baby cries, cries, requires some toy, she "takes away" a snack on her hand or immediately turns off the animation program that she is watching, which is the consequence "scary" head of sulky, sneer behavior.