A doctor with 15 years of experience reveals 'paradoxes' in cosmetology

"It's easy to get surgery, it's hard to refuse"

Dr. Nguyen Hien Bao Khanh - Doctor of cosmetic surgery at Charming Beauty Salon (District 1, Ho Chi Minh City) is one of the first generation plastic surgeons in Vietnam. When asked about the most difficult thing in more than 15 years in the field of cosmetic surgery, Dr. Khanh made many people surprised when he confided: 'Doing beauty jobs for others, to get customer satisfaction. Of course, the goods have to go through a lot of difficulties and challenges. But after more than 15 years working as a professional, I realized that the most difficult thing for a plastic surgeon is . to reject the patient. '

Dr. Khanh further explained: 'In cosmetic industry, we often say that it is harder for customers to refuse surgery than for customers. Do you know why? Because of the pressure of profit and money, it may obscure your order. '

To prove it, Dr. Khanh told me the cases of cosmetic surgery that he skillfully rejected. In particular, many people want to change themselves when they are desperate, hurt emotionally, they seek aesthetics as a salvation while psychologically unstable, there are also people who are 'crazy' of aesthetics. .

'The cases of cosmetic surgery when my psychology is not stable, I refuse or try to advise them. In some cases, I went back a few weeks later to calm them down. There are also very beautiful patients, I recommend that they do not need to edit anymore but they do not believe, want to fix it ', Dr. Khanh shared.

Also according to Dr. Khanh, there are cases that can not be denied because knowing if they refuse, they will go elsewhere to do despite, if going the wrong place, it will cause bigger consequences. At that time, the doctor will only accept the smallest, most reasonable, less likely to cause catastrophe, so that when the "calming" and if customers still want to do, they will continue to advise.

There are customers who often bring photos of actors and models to ask the doctor to make them look like that. With these cases, Dr. Khanh said, he would frankly refuse. Because, according to Dr. Khanh, a plastic surgeon, no matter how good, only turns badness into average, from average to beauty, and from beauty to beauty.

"There is no way, a plastic surgeon can turn a bad thing into an outstanding beauty, or a copy of a certain star, that's very rare.

A beautiful girl is a girl with facial features harmonious with each other, not need to keep Vline chin, Sline nose is beautiful. "

Refuse because I'm 'bad'!

Not only with complicated surgeries, even minor surgeries such as eyelid surgery that many people think are easy, according to Dr. Khanh, it is not simple. And according to Dr. Khanh, knowing how to refuse when customers insist on cutting eyelids is also a challenge, as the story he has just shared on social networks about his guest.

'The longer I work in the profession, the longer my eyes will be cut. Because you will know which ones to cut and which should not be cut but refused, because you have learned from previous cuts of yourself or your colleagues .

There are many books written about the secret of very good, very accurate eyelid cutting: big eyelids is 8-9 cups, small is 5-6 cups, sometimes, puffy eyes have to take fat tissue, want eyelids. If they have a big deep, they must attach to the cartilage .

With a plastic surgeon, all of them will be trimmed and summed over time until one day looking at your eyes says: this eyelid cannot be cut and rejected in a straightforward manner. At that time, either because you were too bad, did not dare to cut difficult cases (that's the way most customers think you were rejected) or that you had enough experience to refuse because you were sure to do it. not beautiful, even causing consequences or complications for its customers. ' At that time, being criticized by the 'bad' customers, the doctor also accepted to pity, because the opinion and experience did not allow 'trying to eat away'.

Through the process of interacting with thousands of customers, Dr. Khanh said that what he realized was that women always wanted to be beautiful at any age. That dream is sometimes nurtured from an early age, dull until they have the opportunity to overcome all economic barriers, family, friends to once live up to their desires.

"Someone came to me when I was 60, 70 years old, when listening to my analysis, they confided that they were about to shed tears" love making nose from a young age, growing up when parents obstructed, when their husbands obstructed, now conditions If you do it . the doctor will stop '. More than anyone else, I understand that beauty needs are legitimate. But I still want to remind you: "Women should know how to make themselves more beautiful, but remember to be beautiful. to help yourself be more confident, live happier, do not abuse, do not follow the trend, do not cling to someone.

And finally, I hope customers understand that beauty is the story of both sides: the doctor and the customer. So, not only consider that the doctor is interested, professional or not, but the customer must also be the brave person to know the stopping point for himself, "Dr. Khanh message.