10 things smart women absolutely not apply to my husband

In marriage the couple always need each other, despite the emotional support when difficult or little daily things. However, some things you expect in the husbands is not practical. Here are 10 things the wife absolutely not be done:

1. getting the guy to choose between you and his mother

Whether your issues with what's mother-in-law, such as sometimes he considered his mother is on top or simply you and she doesn't fit, please ignore that because you your life. Her mother gave birth to him. "In many cases, he would choose the mother instead of you and you should accept it," family marriage expert April Masini (United States of America) said. You should not ask her husband to pick you or mother. To do so, you will cause a split between the two spouses, not between him and his mother.

Even when your man says bad parents, you also have no right to say bad and stood by them. Just a few words to say about the guy's mother or not, he will think about you and that you are unstable to build healthy relationships. Try to keep your emotions in front of my mother, not so impulsive, mealy frivolity, there is also the Act brings happiness for him.

2. Ask the Guy never pay attention to other women

Man and even their wives also impossible not to look at the beautiful girl last year. You should not expect her husband will not pay attention to a beautiful woman when she came across. "Look at what is trivial and not something a lack of healthy", psychologist Jason Nik said. Apparently when my husband you flirt with other women, you should help him.

3. You be jealous

Generally speaking is easier than doing a lot, especially in the emotional affair. To not blindly jealous, you should focus on yourself. Knowing the value of yourself, you will not have to insecurity, anxious to keep the man would remain in his party, on the contrary he will hold you.

4. Do not want to meet the guy he's friends

He needs to have the friend, be it colleague or classmate, as well as you need to have close friends of his. If you stop the husband to meet friends, he will feel upset and will blame you.

"If the husband's female friends don't respect boundaries and stops or deliberately he glamorous tie two people that you should stop communicating with each other and let her know that should not make a third", clinical psychologist, Dr. Ramani Durvasula advice.

Just as mother, friend is one of those subjects are you seriously bearded wings. Love someone doesn't mean you have to love all of their friends, but one thing is sure to remember is never to offend their friends. Absolutely not getting the guy to choose between your friends and yourself. In case you know about relationships and piling friends of the guy, he is a friend's daughter action wise.

5. Want a guy becomes a man

Would be the normal thing when sometimes you ask yourself "why did I marry this person?" after years of cohabitation. Remember, the bad points in the stack is just a part of him. According to Nakya Reeves, Advisor on marriage and family in South Florida, United States of America, if something doesn't fit, please comment with my husband. For example, if you have husbands or have problems of time, be shown to him, you really need to go pick my husband right now but may accept routine to him dinner late.

With these important tasks, explain to him out of jobs he meant in the General Plan of the family during the day, then discuss the responsibility each should make. That way, your husband will feel he's got an important responsibility (is you) and need to complete, rather than simply find yourself suffering from nagging wife.

One of the many mistakes of the women want men to follow his way. There are little things, they also like to impose the other half must act as Italy, into the nasty guy because the feeling was directed, undervalued. Meanwhile, the man but not as women, especially in the small things picked up, but they still know how to do it most effectively, just their way is not the same with the women's way. So, just interested in results, not soi on the steps that they do that, they will not see the pressure, insecurity about themselves and do more fun things for you.

6. Give up his passion, whether it is career or personal interests

Not familiar and new at love, his own passion a part makes you feel attractive guy? Therefore, you should not ask her husband to abandon his passion when two people are married. When the husband buried his head on the job or hobby, it must not neglect the family which is to find happiness full integrity for themselves. However, the balance is key: the guy not because his passion that often forget to take the time for family and interest in his wife.

7. Must become more "adult" when you act like a child

Silent and pale or cold use forms of "embargo" (especially sex) to express anger with getting past the guy is downright childish behaviour and effects. Rather than appease you, he may respond with the same attitude. Silence and apathy makes every problem more complicated, just vicious negative, destroying the relationship by causing feelings of anger and resentment between the two.

If you feel he owes you an apology, don't be silent or attacking him by "cold war". Instead, be assertive with a "statement": "I feel hurt when you indifferent to me and the things I say. I feel I need to apologize for the way he treated me yesterday. Next time, you don't do that to me again ".

8. Don't talk to the guy with the accent on the surface

Have you ever been someone criticizing, say, heavy correct type of tone of the person on the surface? And at the time, how you feel, is certainly incredibly annoying? Latest on the status of you whiskers, their mood a lot worse than when someone turn on the surface accent to talk.

Smart woman must first be good listener and always careful in his every speech. They know that to bring happiness to his men, they will at least say about yourself that focus on partners.

9. Don't promise

Well as women always appreciate the word man, men, too, like an object never promise. If you are often late, said promise, action is not the same as the word says, the guy will think you do not spend the interest for him and irresponsible with the relationship of the two. Gradually, he frustrated, lose faith where you and want to leave you.

10. Want to hear the guy you really like a dear girl friend

My husband you might listen to you in the time of difficulty but not too ready to hear you discharge everything. "Men and women have different purposes when communicating. With men, they just focus on analysis and problem solving, while women only focus expressed his feelings, emotions, "specialist love -marriage David Bennett-author of the book" Eleven Dating Mistakes Women Make (And How to Correct Them) said. According to him, the woman asks her husband to enjoy listening to his "eight" will make men feel discouraged and you also feel bored as when "the other half" no excitement whatsoever when listening to your story.=

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