Don't expect sympathy in mother-in-law!

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Send my sister Thuy Hanh and readers!

Read the story of Happy I think to his similar story over a year ago. So I am writing these lines shared this Happy and send to readers, expect those who plunged into as we will be solving match.

I'm 24 years old, Revenue I get married, I don't live in the same home, but know each other when the same University in Hanoi should also be a time to learn and go to marriage. Married our rent is done in Hanoi and only then go home on weekends or holidays.

Life after our marriage extremely difficult, so we intend to not give birth in a hurry and wait until more stable work. But after just 2 months I haven't seen pregnant mother, my husband has hinted that I "don't know the tongue". Don't want to worry her family, husband and I decided not to plan. I am pregnant, my husband's parents catch me "backwards" about home birth with a reason to go home, "lest the neighbors look back not knowing mother-in-law daughter-in-law what without cravings of home birth".

I go home my husband was born, on the first mother-in-law to take me in the Hospital (my mother at that far yet to be) you have to dry my clothes are bloodstained, she told me that "You should wear the pants and then throw away the paper, rather than the dry blood sticky pants me woah Lam". From the packed, although tired, where each change clothes I have to pour hot water on and dry thoroughly bloodstained clothing and the back to back to my mother my husband dry again. Because I fear, if I know dry when new is 2-3 days after birth she would upset and embarrassed me.

After 2 months, I was about her grandmother, and then out of Hanoi prepared to work. I was almost 4 months, my husband called out the grandmother looks, though know that definitely will happen a lot, but because of new, more strawberry is my husband also like she looks you to go do? should I also agree.

But what Thuy Hanh mother-in-law, mother-in-law of me looks I don't help out you look, that she often make me sentences when talking to my husband and go bad I say all over the neighborhood, or phone about his homeland. She also never wanted her son to help me some work such as washing, housecleaning, ... So, I also have to do this to the other's work. Go back to do everything then go to sleep, and tomorrow again like that, on the other, I can't connect the day would a machine.

However, my husband's mother also never know the feeling of my hard, she considered that is the course that I have to do every day. Already, she has often told me that: "my husband it's working hard to Cook delicious to serve it." The this statement made me feel incredibly dear, because I also have to go to work to make money, my salary and my husband is also similar, but I have to look my children, home work, and must serve the thoughtful husband, ... There are many minutes away from work I don't want to step foot on the House, but because of the thought of children are thirsty for milk so I had to return.

My husband also understands the grief of my hard should he also often help me a few things, including dishwasher. But each time she brought home what my husband is washing out since around their neighborhood constellation. Thus, each home has something about home, my husband still had to hear people in they "encouraged", false, "you're still the man washing".

Too tired with the story of her grandmother, husband and I have a desk and decided to let her go home with why you're home alone and hugged me when I sent was 11 months old. The first time is quite tedious, because the light would also have to prepare the furniture brings go to cooking people, especially at the ill, but compensate the couple I feel very comfortable because not to think more what do parents bring to my husband every day and have the time dedicated child care and care of the work.

"Far away, near", since my husband's mother about the relationship between my country and the increasingly improved husband mother not like her up with my spouse, and pry and to me enough. The lives of the couple and the baby is also more fun and happiness. Now I was more than 2 years old, am working dad put away the afternoon kindergarten, parents catch on cooking rice waiting for dad. Eat concrete wash Bowl and dad both huddled hear the potty song bi ... He felt peaceful and happy really know how.

This is my experience, Almond can refer to see fit not then apply. Wish you always calm and consistent decisions. I also want to say more Happy with that, don't ever expect sympathy in her husband's mother, because we are not the end to the gut by Ms. born, so never had the love actually.

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