Fears that the thought of my wife being the husband to get ... ' probation '

The marriage of his sister with brother Thanh (Viet hung TOWNSHIP, Long bien, Hanoi) was not smooth as many young couples. Perhaps by temperament both look the same, there are little kids, bigotry, more selfish, or section nạnh of refugees, accept the cỏn stories, it picked up to major problems arise in life, they are not looking to be the General.

Add a further sadness is the doctor yet to find out the cause why they have not yet had children. Despite persistent treatment but yet fate smiles for they are father, mother.

Two years ago, he moved the Bar to another company, he was promoting in a higher position. Of course, coupled with high wages to double, triple the old wage is work pressure is also multiplied by that percentage.

Inconsistency on stress exacerbated. They have so many things to say to relieve each other, but both are seeing the impasse and do not know will have to say how, where to start ...

Seeing her husband being away work from morning to night, from day to day, my sister over the more feel lonely wandering wide House. Even feel being neglected husband, because not yet have children, until the work of ourselves too leisurely, cause she has the acting was not soft with her husband.

Late night new couple, but the boundary at the time she often crying, sulking caused England back pillow lounge bedroom out of Warsaw. Inconsistency on stress exacerbated. They have so many things to say to relieve each other, but both are seeing the impasse and do not know will have to say how, where to start ...

One day when fatigue has exceeded the limit, you're suddenly Stick to discuss solutions to improve the situation. According to him, the only way to salvage this marriage, married to each other without borders have to quarrel, deal with each other again, as will their separation over a period of 6 months.

Do, he then worked in the mother tongue home furnishings. Agreement that the two sisters devise is in the separation time both are not allowed to have a third. Just the way a couple weeks back.

When something they still call, messaging to continuous information, contact ... No pole has, I must accept Content to hope on a good result as beautiful as her husband she has launched.

Then things don't take place in accordance with the agreement. English grounds work, or the household to delay meetings. Every time my husband on the phone, listen to his voice expressed the cold, unpleasant; or when a message that her husband didn't answer ... my sister Dung saw confusion, Division and mistreatment extremely painful.

She didn't have her marriage date back to fall into situations "hanging". "I really don't understand your husband want that again. I'm always mouth says does not want a divorce but you behave like you have completely stepped out of my life.

When I complained, the blame of your attitude, I promised to change, where the song back in. I myself also don't want separation, parallel to undergo separation time longer than 4 months before your eyes with my result is beyond endurance.

After that time, then our future will be like? Friends I still said I should go to mental preparation, by having to 99% is going to divorce because we do not yet have children, not to be bound. Furthermore the family home her husband long nor have those sympathetic to me.

To the family I constantly urged, requires either an attitude my spouse end to escape ... "-She confided with expert advice.

From deep in Dung, she still loved her husband very much. I want to continue to stick with him to have a child looking after this. At the age of almost 40, she feared facing the disintegration and change. However, the present circumstances fall into, I really don't know how.

She wondered whether those thoughts, the desire of the self are too vague and illusive when his marriage was no longer the road salvage. That is also the reason she found with psychological experts to find answers to your questions.

Ready to face the worst situation

Share with me about the unspeakable worry, fret before married she feelings are many rifts, the Spiritual Center of the consultants feel she is a woman always desire happiness, desire to preserve warm nest and care for family life.

Things happen really are causing my sister incredibly confused and distressed, by my sister never thought there will be days you're separated like this. "Sister's psychology that is also easy to understand, however to avoid having the negative mood you make thorough consideration to calm things.

However you are still current are husband and wife and sister look like siblings just in order to challenge the same recognition again for emotional together. "– Vo Thanh Giang consultants analysis.

She has the couple, happy days, got together to share sweet, bitter, did pass along how turbulent life's challenges. That's very respectable and treasured by not many couples can do so.

Despite the fact there are many disagreements arose, but between the siblings has also been a tremendous affection, a love deeply devoted to each other in the last 10 years. Can the marriage of the sister he had not understood when he rounded his sister not to have children.

But despite this, also hard to blame anybody by this is something nobody wants. A child may be the rope tying the spouses in the marriage and the emotional connection between the two. However, the fact that childbirth is not the only factor to decide emotionally the couple or happiness in marriage.

In fact there are many couples have had children, but they still cooled sentiments together and finally divorce still. And also a lot of couples don't have children, but they still love each other, still happy to live throughout his life.

Therefore, you do not have children is not the reason leading to the present separation condition. There are affordable not just born child created in part the pressure makes you feel tired, depressed.

Perhaps the cause makes the marriage of the sister he becomes lukewarm, these aggressor contingency derives from lack of interest, share with each other in daily life. And also from the lack of shared, confided to each other that you increasingly less sympathetic, understanding and forgiveness to each other, which leads to more conflict arises, more aggravated.

In addition, the husband new job change more strenuous, more stress, more and make him less interested in spending time with his family.

As I've seen, married life, when every person is only interested in work or myself without the share, integrate mentally, emotionally together then there is nothing difficult to understand when emotionally the couple becoming bland.

The English separation solutions to test sentiment, according to the expert advice is somewhat in a hurry. By people should only think of separation when noticed that almost no longer love, as both no longer want to live together and when the couple was doing all that it can to warm feelings, happy.

Also in the case of siblings, both he and she are both yet to efforts in solving conflicts, contradictions, yet seek to rebuild emotionally decimated long defects by intimacy, sharing, caring and understanding.

If you solve the problem according to the dimension can be any more positive. However, the separation of siblings also took out two months and the problem is I need steadfastness, strong to go forward in the remaining months of the test this last sentiment.

Perhaps to get the positive mood, my sister to see the separation as a way to help my sister and husband to see love for each other or how siblings need each other. This is also the silence needed to help my sister and I ponder about what good that your partner has to provide for themselves in the years together.

During this time, to avoid creating heavy pressure for each other, you should not blame attitude, instigation or criticising her husband by that just pushes him further. Sentiments can only grow and develop based on emotion.

All the force only in new feelings fade away. So my sister Dung should keep the fun attitude, optimism and confidence to meet and contact with her husband.

She should also take care of yourself to yourself to become more beautiful, more healthy and love myself more. My sister come back is a lovely woman, attractive day in the eyes of everybody including her sister's husband.

Building good relationships with my husband's family is also something you should do because that was one of the factors associated with her husband's sister.

Does anyone know about the love of siblings can return results or not, but I believe the life will become more peaceful and happy when you know love himself.

Happiness in themselves rather than depend on the sister he love you back or not. She was young and happy opportunities ahead. Be defined for themselves the bad situation could happen to get that mind open to it in a positive way.

Hope that with effort as well as the desire of her happiness, she will soon find peace, joy in life.=