Haunted because of loss of virginity whatever ... not in love

But in the age of 23, he had been raped by a man acquainted, long story. Myself afraid to your honor, and now more afraid than when thinking of familiar person; fear of people in love do not believe his story and ask excuses himself does not know the answer? Two years ago but feeling like new today so, themselves suffering humiliating, just like to die for finishing (Ghost).

Reply:

Dear Ling!

I understand and empathy with the fret, your worry. I also understand the suffering, paying that you have suffered. It's not easy to be able to pass an afternoon.

Ghost, the worry of you completely have by many sons are often difficult to accept what you girls, his wife once in a relationship with his son. However not everyone is. I witnessed many of you boys ready to accept and love the people with similar circumstances. At present they are living a very happy and fulfilling. All those things have to be from the sincerity, comprehend and accept that both for each other. So you can fully hope about a life of marriage happiness with someone who truly loves you.

Your problem now overcome himself. Apparently in deep, you can not overcome the pain and do not accept everything that happened. You suffer, paying and humiliating just wanted to end my life? This shows that you don't believe in yourself, you are losing faith in the future. If you don't believe in yourself, how can make someone believe you. Confidence in yourself, faith in the good life in the future will make you have to think and act more actively. Just so you get rid of your problems and have been really happy.

What you fear love don't believe in what you say and will not know what to say when he asked what the thing is also easy to understand. However, you need more attention at all is whether his love be strong enough to overcome and accept your problems, you build lasting happiness or not. If that friend really loved you, he may not believe everything you say, but he will accept and overcome all hurdles to come to you.

Conversely, if because of your past that he demanded a separation or hurt you then you should seriously rethink if do not want to suffer later. The truth is always the truth, he would Dodge forever. You will not be easy to speak out the truth, but perhaps you will feel more serene when you speak out.

But in life, not the facts would speak out is also good, you need to consider carefully before making a decision. You should anticipate the consequences that can happen and then make the final decisions, or choose "live to die bring belly" as some of you still do. It is important that you learn how to look and accept everything.

Making you happy and successful or not depends greatly on your thoughts and actions in the present rather than in the past.

Be strong!

Expert consultant Thanh Van=