His brother-in-law wanted me to replace when her sister died of a serious illness

Early last year, my sister is sick and I end up helping his brother-in-law in Hanoi take you. Because you have to stay in hospital for long, while at home his father, paddy fields have no Garden should parents care about the countryside and just left me in the back. Illness, my sister has died. I go home to eat and her parents then on this occasion, his brother-in-law and the nephew of his hometown, also expressed the wish to take me up in the same, help him instead she'd care and homes for some time.

So I don't want that. I this year in addition to 40, not get married because of some private reasons and wanted to stay home to take care of their parents. I think soon brother-in-law must also find a replacement for my bad sister. Work me up in Nice, is not easy, things arise. Moreover, I have a stable career in his home country. Though just as workers but I also adopted enough myself. However, my mother resolutely convinced me. I tried gặng, new mom said wish I up there in, and then gradually the world in place of his sister. Moreover, his brother-in-law who intend it.

When know the profound wish of my mother, I do not agree. I see that employment is not acceptable. I was going to tell my mother to think of his brother-in-law he actively not thanks to me up again to her mother from the pressed me. According to you, should I do it?

Thuy Mai (Henan)

Knowing the intentions of her parents and brother-in-law I resolutely oppose (artwork)

Ms. Thuy Mai!

I support your thoughts. However, I also understand and sympathize for thinking of my mother. Probably also comes from the love grandchildren. It is also common that the elder sister. Especially when her brother-in-law real desire she will become the mother of the second. The rest then wait on fate and her real feelings.

You think the brackets mean the Golden stones instead of her sister on the left is the work ethics. It also is not unlawful employment. Just one thing, everyone in your both happy and satisfied.

About having the word up in the care of the grandchildren or not is by my sister to decide. But in my opinion, if his brother-in-law had the lyrics, you can arrange up in the time allowed. You should frankly recommend find brother-in-law and sister work up also just fill gaps when not yet found one. Like all pros, brotherhood, which I can't blame my sister was.

Also, the thing about you don't worry. Basically people in my thoughts seriously. Brothers and sisters helping each other are at the quarter is difficult. Try a little sister.=