Husband and wife living together like two strangers

I'm 24 year old, my husband of 29 years. We take each other for almost a year. I'm currently pregnant be 6 months.

The couple were married for more than 2 months, I discovered my husband has a mistress. Because were trying to prompt and thanks to the help of her husband's family, so some time later he also terminated the friendship with the girl. But not how long, while you're pregnant, you're already a different girl. You try advising her husband but in vain.

Home my husband how work is not far away. But due to the weak you have to should children conceived accommodation to facilitate the work. So that entire time his wife pregnant, not when you call asking for a wife. Each time you visit to a thai or foreign home well just go it alone. I have convinced him he would not go along.

Experiencing a lot, now I feel depressed. My feelings for my husband as well. In the hearts of children only with hatred.

I have to take care of monthly for his life. You can't fool me one bit. Even, every time I go home, my husband, you are through others to sleep. With the children, no one told anybody that, well no one see one.  Many times he said he would write to single divorced. But he has not the courage to write. You don't want to kiss his wife li.

I want to kiss you but not li. I'm also very afraid of doing her parents on either side. I should do now? Looking forward to my sister give me a advice!

(N.K.L)

Reply:

Hello!

The marriage of the couple you are more than 1 year that I had to go through the mood is not good like this, that's a pity. By just 2 months after the wedding that my husband has otherwise promiscuous. While with the other couples, this time period is still sweet and romantic.

In the letter, I do not have specific skills her husband before coming together is not. But in the relationship your spouse not in love would be called love like I'm thinking. By if in love actually, my husband will respect and caring, faithful children not promiscuous off this girl to her.

But whether husband have an affair because of any reason, shall also not be accepted. Moreover he neglected children, no child care and abortion in the abdomen. Even want to leave me, so I need something in this man?

Actually, the breakdown in the marriage is something no one wants and she believed me. But in the circumstances of the children, can't be happy if only every child builds.

I'm hoping my husband still loves his wife through the he did not write the divorce? But maybe because he does not yet have a clear decision? Or because the attitudes of children does not affect the life of my husband should not now get the divorce papers is so

I'm afraid your parents sad, what about your life? Whether you can tolerate. This marriage is not happiness is not an error in you, so why are you afraid of things not related to yourself?

The parents will probably see my marriage sad unfinished. But they will also hurt more than when their child abandoned and living in misery. Try to ask, if a mother, you want your children to live in misery and despair?

Signers certificate of marriage is one thing need to consider. But think about divorce, then have to weigh a lot more. When you sign the marriage certificate, that is when you are ready for a happy and new challenges. Now, consider once again what you are going through to take definitive decisions and more easily.

Try thai balm and safely up, children!=