I really don't know if I should get the husband of a close friend

I really don't know if I should get the husband of a close friend.

I and she are suffering, that is the Telecom about sex Tutty. Ten years ago, I used to love a man who earnestly, has also been "awarded the dear diocese" but does not love. He suffered illness and death. Since then, I tightly closed my heart no longer want to love anyone anymore. You me the idea of having my life my party happy couples ages when she was married and had two beautiful children. So that now, they also have been separated nearly 1 years.

My friend's husband is a good man. She also recognized itself as such. But the two men's personalities vary too much cause you and her husband often occur collisions. Small inconsistencies but also long on the copy area the big ones. Both, the General could not be found in the life of the couple. Almost a year ago, they were separated. I was crying a lot and just say it for yourself I know because she didn't want her family to worry.

When did I know motivate, encourage small you yourself so much. I suggest she should because of the children that suffer by removing some disagreements and to heal with my husband. Don't be like me, the woman in addition to the age of 30 still live alone miserable, but she won't listen to me. She said the couple should not be too much different would reconcile. They still live together in a rooftop, along the care the child but no one said a Word to anyone. Each has a private life and nobody cares.

Look at the marriage of you I too terrible. Both of us are not happy in love . From when I lived, I often passed her over to the care of the children. When you're on a business trip, she is not assured of missing so often I catch you thanks and bathing, lo for several days in eating her away. In conditions like that my husband and his friend's had the opportunity to understand each other more.

I know him from when you and him. In my eyes he is a man of poise, understand. How many years I've always respected him and I believe in him, too. Even now, when he and I separated I still for him a respect. The chat with you, I understand that I love for my wife not anymore because I have too many things wrong. Whether you are a good man, but I heard he said I know, in the family life she made too many mistakes. I advised him to forgive his wife to slowly I motivate her to change, pointed out to her the wrong but he said: "love is like a bowl of water, had doused the go how do get it back".

I also recommend that small you and talk about the things that he's sharing but you insisted I wouldn't admit the wrong about yourself. The bigotry of you I also made me impotent. I rotate to try to motivate him but he also said it was too late. He's just waiting for first child contest moved to level up to level 2 is finished will divorce.

Since the open, share with each other a lot, me and him closer together. Sometimes when he's bored or I'm out of coffee, even once he drunk too well known for me. I see you're longing for familylife, to have a wife and kids tho ... I don't know since when I left shaken before. Emotionally it brought me a lot of emotions but most is still suffering and shame.

I gradually felt love for me. He told me that the woman's family and I appreciate it immensely. I tried to dodge that feelings because he is the husband of her friend. I was reminded that a lot of times but then I had to surrender. I love you!

When you suggest something serious relationship, I'm very afraid. He said he would divorce his wife. It's not my fault because before you do. You want to reach me, I built a family, a happy nest. Now I am suffering. I love you, want to come with you because many years I also aspire to have a family of her own. I am not afraid, I'm not afraid of anything, including the custody of my husband. But the price that he is not a friend of my husband I will brave to do that.

What should I do here, I don't want you to hurt deep because early marriage did not bring him happiness. He's very miserable if I waive my love. Moreover, I myself also aspires to be near him. But I will have to face with the people, with his friend, his family how are you here?=