My husband loves money more than the health of my wife, children

My husband HA to stingy level, I appreciate the coin over the health of his wife, son and family affection.

My husband finished level 3, then along to workers in the industrial zone-Quang Minh, Hanoi. Because of difficult family circumstances, my husband is a renowned man save, knowing this, but I thought the man was saving the man know about piling for the family, his wife, so after a time in love we also go to the marriage.

But married life is only fun for a few months, and then is the argument, all well just because my husband too, and that always made me feel incredibly uncomfortable.

Not bad, but my husband says my husband save a stingy ways, I regard the currency over the health of his wife, son and family affection. Don't you ever dare take me to drink a glass of ice tea in addition to the road, not saying to go to drink coffee or eat outside the home. He said, the two lower salary, should be very thrifty.

Even, I'm pregnant, there are minutes away go back I am thirsty too tell you to stop buying me a drink sugar cane juice bag to help tired, so that he did not buy. You told what drink drink drink, home of the street has just lost again expensive.

He always bo bo kept the money, do not dare to go and enjoy life

Then Saturday, Sunday, I want to invite my husband out to drink coffee but he refused, and the only reason I give it is afraid.

Afraid I spend, I get always both kept the couple's salary accounts and responsible spending. The try, to work on that I had to pay for her husband's wages are always, and there's plenty of opportunity to take the money, because the hammer market, buying and selling something he also always.

Everyone in the neighbors told me to go ahead, because having a thoughtful husband, worrying all markets stories, but nobody knows that, you do so well just because your so mean, I don't want to go to the market for fear that I spend a lot of money, but not as attentive or other reason.

Have the occasion last year, a group of female workers in the workshop I held food festival, must close money, but he also won't let me join. As you said, eating a packed Festival, by 2 spouses eat home all week, should not go.

Recently my mom, so that my monthly salary I still keep being, dare not let go.

I suggest to you is that my mother is sick, so I like to keep an account of salary to buy gifts and clear when visiting his mother, but he whisked away and told to visit mom is okay, not gifts do for tired, she had eaten.

Also clear my mother had a brother and sister-in-law I worry, it is not the responsibility of you and me.

To the sick, go buy drugs on that he also grumbles, sounding what is clear. Only slight cough, only few self on carving it will out.

I really feel extremely tired of living with a husband to Hanoi so mean like that. I also don't know what to do to fix this bad in my husband. I am writing to share here, so look forward to receiving advice from the siblings.

 Nguyen Thi Ha (Quang Minh INDUSTRIAL ZONE workers-HN)=