My husband wanted me to his debt burden

My husband said yes, my wife said no, nobody loved very much in favour.

 

1. Heat 1: England goal too wild, too dè xẻn

How do you not raised eyebrows when he hands the spending too, or when she's overreacting about each Board you leave out?

First, let's understand that money of each person is different and can not turn a person who likes to spend the saving every penny. But you can take out a common ground for both. For example, make a monthly deposit agreement for each person, that it is "the Foundation of entertainment". With that money, each person can spend according to interests that the other could not oppose (unless he/she decided to play gambling or buy.. drug trafficking). As a result, people spend money will not find themselves being controlled, and people like to save can keep that money for a big target and practical than that.

Hot spot 2: When the other has a debt is very reasonable.

You see it's great when your spouse have a foreign qualification. Only thing, the degree which is the reason that a huge debt remained to the eels in front of two people.

Have you ever heard the phrase "love me, love my dog"? That is, we will need both always love these things have not been so good in the other. For example, you like her eyes but will probably have to hug a fat belly full of grease and a stressful financial situation. Please tell her/him: "we will have to save up for a pretty long time to pay off that debt, but that is a part of our lives." And share the same burden.

Hot point 3: something must also prioritize!

The young couple often quarreled about the budget because they used it as a struggle between "needs" and "your needs". One of two people who want to give birth the following year but others objected, saying that he also likes to travel or buy cars! So please keep a list of the top five financial goals that you have within the next few years, and suggested his spouse do the same to see if something would not overlap.

Tough economy means you may not get everything right at the time you want to anymore, so let's focus on the shared priorities of both people. Establishment of the budget spending is not interesting, but trying to achieve a common goal then there is certainly interesting.=