The myths when women get married

Don't think that when families means there are 2 sources of income, you will not need to worry about finances. Being married means you will about do Strawberry home with others the responsibility and new missions such as: daughter, sister, sister-in-law, nephew ... In any position would you also have to have some certain responsibility.

When in love, the girl would also see "life in pink" and not anticipate what his face when officially married. You are married doesn't mean you only get the guy that you love that you will have to be responsible for shouldering the family along with him.

Of course, the 2 will be better source of income is income you but you will also have to contribute, spending more, even to pay both for things not for herself or her husband. So, don't think that marriage is a way to reduce the financial pressures that make it so both spend well in family life.

2. Marriage is the most lonely

When in love, one always sees his lover to remember looking forward to the meeting although there one day. With these people, then the time is never enough with them. And they want quick marriage to officially be together, together, day and night.

However, after the marriage, many people have been "disillusionment" because together, they realized many things both not and turned out to be together day and night back discomfort to so.

When love, little time together should anyone try to gratify the other. So that the Vice was hiding away, just showing off those nice point. But after marriage, everything was exposed and not few people get really frustrated about his mate. And with many of you girls, this makes them feel more lonely than when in love.

But marriage is not something "today like tomorrow," so whether disappointed or lonely, then both should know how to change it.

3. Can have sex any time

Before marriage, sexual stories were considered "beyond limits", so couples often hiding the affair. But what's more to hide the more desires. So without at least the couple just wanted to quickly married to be valid or "stiff" and can "" relationship at any time without curtains, pry.

However, the libido and the frequency of "sexual relations" depend on compatibility and the "cooperation" from both sides. There are young couples before marriage "that" a harmony but after marriage, due to many factors impact making it not as Italy anymore, even the two also did not want to "close" to each other.

If you have been married just because think marriage will satisfy their sexual desire but that did not happen then you will be extremely disappointed and losing faith in marriage.

So, don't marry because of any reason, decide when you find yourself already thoughtfully about everything.

4. Have your child is everything will be solved

Many of the sisters also foresee a thing is marriage is not pink and the argument, dissent, even adultery, wants a divorce ... absolutely can happen.

However, some of them also have sisters that all the troubles in the marriage that can totally fix thanks ... children. Despite bickering spouses would also have to because the children that hold their fast, despite the couple love each other anymore because of the children that try to heal ...

But the fact? Often parents because the children but not all. In many cases, parents have been conflict, hatred of each other despite having children also do not salvage the situation.

And if you have to try to live together, then will do the suffering the children not to live for you. So, before marriage, both should weigh carefully not to think that the children's relief wing floats for his mistake later.

5. Parents have "dot" and the mixed

From the ancient, the etymology for children had an opportunity to parents allied with the powerful family of politics or economics. Today it is not no the parents choice through to his advantage. So can this boy whose parents choose for you not the people you choose. You will have to live life with a husband that you don't love, though he is "perfect" in the eyes of parents and not sure he loves you. So remember, when love is not in the marriage, maybe it will be outside of marriage.

6. Married to soon settle

They all get married. Their children, their husbands khỉnh's grand success and after marriage, the social status of them significantly. All the things that create psychological pressure to you. That they also urge: "why don't you get married? Old place! ". The man would appear at the right of this very easy to do your reasons and he quickly become your husband, although that's not the person you need. Rush to marry and then divorce into a hurry back out as slowly as possible, not to mention life unfinished.

7. View the marriage rescue wing is changing lives

Have the girls get married just because feel sucked too tight control by the parents, want to get rid of the family as soon as possible. Thus, having a man willing to marry and take you to a different place, you are easy to get. If he has a separate apartment, then you probably also want to marry more and faster, although you do not have jobs, yet capable of independent, i.e. you mature in terms of new biology that have yet to mature socially. Typically, the path is the path of adventure.

Marriage is also not a solution to the situation, when you can not be happy living alone so you think, you will happy if living with someone. Do life alone is too tedious, you idea is grab somebody brings happiness.

But, marriage is not a miracle turn tedious into life full of joy. The two halves of the new happiness should be able to do a double happiness. If two tedious half then easy to make into a pair of tedious.

You look today, how many single women still teeming with fun and busy, always lack of time. People who like extremely attractive in the eyes of men. That was when they had the opportunity of choosing a husband will bring happiness.=