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I regret, just hurt my father, just angry at myself too much child-stars, mixed with his father, to dare to hurt his father. (Artwork)

I was the youngest son in the family. On I am a sister. Both my sisters have grown and have families of their own. 5 years ago, my mother is terminally ill and died. After 3 years of my mother's funeral, the paragraph at the right on the third death anniversary of mother, father and two sisters have called me to come and told us calmly heard him speak a truth about our family. The truth is: both sisters are not his offspring.

Both sisters spin. In his life, I saw no less sad and unexpected stories, but it's not the story would make them spin to it. Wait we calm, his calmness to hear it. Until now, I still don't make unforgettable and also could not understand why her father left her a story telling how serene and touched to so.

Later, the two sisters I've often told each other: Are incredibly loving mother, love and kindness to life with the new father was emotional and so attitudes toward stories that most people fall into circumstances that will not do so.

My father was born and raised in Dong van district, HA Nam province. From small, father has orphaned both parents, live my life very miserable. In 1972, his team, were injured in the southern battlefield. Parents in need of the hour, my mother up in Saigon as workers for a pharmaceutical company. After the liberation, his father remained in Saigon and then met my mother. My parents get so happy.

But after two years, my mother still no sign is motherhood. Parents take the examination, the doctor insisted my mother no matter what influence the possibility of motherhood. Why my father automatically go to see a doctor. And the truth is, his inability to have children.

My father was extremely upset in a long time. My mother and father said that the player will find a foster child. But the real surprise when he said that the birth mother, I can still do it. My mother was crying and begging my dad don't doubt her feelings for him. But my father had to say very seriously, he tried for the parents understand that, my mother was born the child is important, more important than everything else. He even wanted my mother and he parted to comfort mom found new happiness. But my mother was denied from doing that despite a desire to do his mother. Also from there, my mother often dream about babies and occasionally singing. The things that my father knows.

But in the end it still happens as fate that my mom didn't do against it. My mom's pregnant sister. When I was pregnant, my mother knelt down our father I wish he forgive and would be returning home to his native. But the shock through the spirit, the father as understood and took out all the love and trade as well as the sacrifice for my mom's desire that comforted and sheltered her.

All that the father intended for parents these days, which makes parents rely on their heartfelt emotions father. And then two years later, my mother was born again. Despite trying to understand with all his imagination, I also do not understand how my father lived to how parents don't see the inferiority of born children with other men that are not with him.

Since we launched so far has more than 30 years, we always live happily in love love of my father. In my memories, during childhood, the father is the person who taught my sister each glass of each line. I always wish that I could later become a man like my father. And I will take care of his children as his father had done for us.

Only 1 single father-that is who has raised and love yourself

I still remember, when I was 15, 16 years old, the endless years of worry, or lost and the child, for every time people in their family, met each other in celebration, wedding, mild enough as they gray cigars says: two sisters I was the father, not that my father does not have the ability to have children and we are the children of parents with the other men.

Hear a lot of the speculation and beams, I have a question. I asked directly of his father: "Daddy, sisters are children of my father?". My father hugged me tightly and I yelled at heart: "you heard nonsense heard where vessel." I answered: "why's everyone keep saying so". His father says: "people tease her, two sisters are not the father, then the son who is right". Listen, I like Andy every burden, down early on his father cry.

Since then, I have confidence in the interpretation of the cha and the more love than never to Italy to answer Gray's soy sauce again. Once father sad that I regret forever until now, times, I mistake, my father caught me lying down and hit. Often my father hurt me that much, when I made a mistake, sorry to you guys, I just caught a fine bow and apologize to three rather than the father had never hit me. Now the father screamed what I see pain, roi rating unbearable, back said his father for salve the exchange news:

"He is not my father". The world is my father quit not roi and sad these days. These days, his father eyes can water almost crying. I regret, just hurt my father, just angry at myself too much child-stars, mixed with his father, to dare to hurt his father.

Can I crush narrow-minded so I can not understand a man has to love and kindness with a woman and a child, when it is not their child. Although imagine how, my sister also does not search the full reason to understand my father's heart. After the funeral my mother, my father spoke out the truth of our origins.

My mother had 2 sisters and I with two different men. My father told my father to go find two father for two sisters. My sister was crying, my father I don't do that. We no longer think of anyone but our father again. Our father is the father of kindness on the life that we have been blessed with.

Even though we begged our father many times, but he is still determined to find who the father of the 2 sisters. The father said, until our mother died, my father also did not know who was the father of the us. When we got married, my father often asked my mother about the father of my sister. But my mother determined not to disclose and only said: Although my father had understood and extremely kindness with my mother but my mother never said who the father.

My mother very paying themselves because parents have children with other men while my mother was still living with my father. Many nights, parents are often startled as mentally ill person when thinking of it. My father did all to my mom was serene and understand that it is the wish of my father my mother born children and he has found every way motivate, explain my mother to my mother doing it. But my mother never forgave himself. My mother often suffer and say parents were demons.

Have the time after birth, my mother fell on the status of people with mental illness. My father care, comfort and encouragement to my mother. Also have many times, my mother asked my father. She does not understand her father and now, my sister and I don't know who is the father. If only said what the father makes our mother because of the generosity and love big love then I see not enough. Must have a strange new thing can help him do strange things like that.

A few years ago, my father still quietly go in search of who the father of my sister. We still beg my dad don't do so because in the flesh and blood we have only the father is father only. We were so happy because a father like that and yet a second would we think must go in search of the father of our people. But my dad has strict told us that, people have to know his roots.

The father recalls the old acquaintances of his mother and so the times asked. His father met a few men who have acquainted themselves with there mother and ask them. But not yet a man would accept that they are the father of my sister. The father has anything to tell the man that my father I hope they are the father of my sister about how the necessity for my sister when they know their origins.

So, the end of the month to month, the sturdy father go find those the father for my sister. We never had a little disturbed about what my father did for us. But why are we still just have to ask yourself that the father is who do things like that?  =