The things to note when deciding to split

The breakup is something no one wants to, though you are "active" or "stone", by the fact that you will be faced with an unpleasant period of time to get familiar with the status "new" relationship. Also if you already think and decided already, then this is the thing you need to note.

1. Don't ever break through the message

When the separation you speak in a clear, straightforward and reasons. Don't ever break through the message unless you want other people to feel you want to "run" from this situation as quickly as possible (they will get hurt!).

2. Do not touch any reason

Many people after the "break up" is still running on facebook look sideways, one by stt, or a rainy day wind back "missed" texting reminders even slicker excuses.. Reality shows: after the separation the more you communicate, the harder "end". Let everything be sleeping alone and let the wound into the scar. Rather than repeat the old story occasionally is not cứa any other wound.

3. Don't blame myself

If the separation is the work to be done, you should not blame themselves. Will definitely have a lot of stuff boggles in the beginning you when the old emotions rise. You are willing to "pay" any price to return as the old days, and do not regret the blame themselves.

Actually, love is a story of both her and not you. As if you were trying to save his relationship ends but not then there is nothing that you have to regret or paying myself any more.

4. Don't sit forever in the dark, alone gnawing sadness and loneliness

When the breakup of his relationship, certainly you want to have a private space and sat weeping misery. In fact, you need time to heal again the hearts and minds. You don't have to be bad off when suffering at this time. Do not because of the article, the advice "pride, musician an.." that try to compress. But you should not suffer in solitude. Joy as well as sadness, will more smoothness when shared.

5. Don't think I can't love anyone else, no one ... more

You would think that suffering in this life no longer has anyone his suit at all, that no longer can love anybody like that anymore. But the pain will pass. Will come a day that you received love from someone, you heart felt warm and reo. At that time, you will see that we don't love turned out much: as we thought.

Although it originally sounded out real hard. But the smile will bring happiness for yourself and for all those around. It will be the additional dose lift your spirit.=

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