The tragedy of a husband named ' sweet memories '

I T N.L. (age 29, Thanh Xuan, Hanoi) confided to the experts consulted about the Spiritual marriage only lasted three years but took the fall on tragedy from two years now.

He is the son of his mother, after being neglected mistress, she sent her son to his grandparents and then take the other man. However, after the wedding, so my husband discovered she had the son should have dumped, she had the expression of psychological instability, and anger or ease name-calling others.

She lived with her son in the vindictive hatred, even with people around. The first time, I T has suffered many hurt by mothers all the derogatory name-calling.

However when more mature, you understand that because she spent too much shock and loss in his life that the harsh people out like that. I feel no resentment she as before.

In a talks with a partner, he met a beautiful girl, dynamic name q. poor English Girl 3 years old, when he had just undergone breakdown of first love should meet the hunt welcomes T vập Mallet, she quickly fall. The two married after 6 months loving each other.

So before the wedding, T has been teaching the complex enough, terrible about life should I kiss insecurity. However, the first time everything went smooth, the feeling of happiness at having his wife next to him saw regret that was not met and married Q sooner.

I T doesn't doubt, just after the marriage in less than 2 years, I had to change the mindset. There are many stories were beyond the reach of people who were considered to be as smart as you, making him unable to handle it.

Things began to change when his mother suddenly quitting their homeland up to live with the couple. Q which was born in the family home, teachers should fold background when speaking to the mother of her husband, she is crying and upset for a long time.

However, with the encouragement of her husband, and because of the love, compassion to you should you try to forget the discomfort that she did for her. T back as appreciate and love my wife more than to see her suffer sacrifice themselves because happy families.

The only real disaster struck in a times Q accidentally touch the computers, real separation of T and see your sex clips and her old lover are you saved in folders named: "sweet memories". Q stunned because long in the eyes, he is the perfect man, maturity, morality.

She has quietly left the House, alone up the familiar of the two spouses in Tam DAO to weeping for and think about what has passed. T like crazy when see my wife suddenly left no note. He also could not communicate with the Q.

A few days later, the Q return with simple signed divorce available. She only said briefly that he needs to go to T live with "sweet memories". Just a few brief words, T understood the mistake kept a supposed deleted long ago.

He explained, conjure wife exoneration by all is past. Since the met and took the Q do my wife, I love only for you. If Q is not yet forgiven you then must also give him the opportunity to demonstrate his feelings.

And Q gave me the opportunity when he gradually accepted skip on her husband's past. By T really also no longer have any counters of United Kingdom, with the woman in the video.

But, despite accepting forgiveness, then it is also a major shock with Q. After the husband and wife to heal soon, she finds herself pregnant. Pregnancy fatigue, miserable and have to endure unpleasant temperament of her mother-in-law making Q. become anger rather than abstinence, peaceful as before.

The couple often arguing for no ... The battle of constantly arguing lasted for years made T tired and know only seeking pleasure in the job. You have to go home feeling fear facing the two women always look him eye spitefully and flush out those harsh words.

Q see the world as mad because think that you should neglect the external univesity, she came to her husband's company, and met with my boss and HR Management Division to "accusations", insulting her husband. She asked them to intervene, you have to go home, have a responsibility to his wife.

However, Q was totally wrong to choose that solution. Q leave the company and return home with resentment nor wife poorly what her own hatred for him. The tension between husband and wife entailed.

T unexpectedly married life so complicated again. There are a lot of things were beyond reach. And who is regarded as intelligent as he could not handle it.

Comprehend, and to forget his ego

T have the tenacity and resiliency crossed the plight of families with many rough to rise to assert ourselves in life. He is also the man responsible for the family, truly yearn to find happiness in marriage after many years, the couple, the General could not be found.

Through stories, psychological experts understand the mood somewhat miserable, tired of you when I saw the family scene "rice does not heal, not sweet soup". To find a solution to this problem, a need in him calm, understanding and efforts to change the relationship between him and his wife.

At the age of 29, can tell you T was very lucky to get a career and a happy marriage. The British couple are full of these conditions to build family life as you like when both were young, kind, and who knows.

In fact, the controversy, is common in any couple would, and to solve it very needed in each of the insight, and know her I forget.

Married life with many contradictions, disagreements arise always extremely challenging with the young couple. the first five years of marriage is also easy to stage crashes of the young couples.

The cause of most stem from personality differences, living concept, habit, personal preferences or the inconsistency can also originate from the mother-in-law bride relationship.

In the story of the couple he T, can see the cause for the onset on a deteriorating relationship of the spouses is the wife discovered his sex clips T and former lover.

Although the review fairly, I T is also no errors whatsoever in this affair by the things that happened in the past. There he is wrong to keep doing "anniversary" very dangerous for the British couple relationship in the present and the future.

The wife have the negative reactions with my husband also is easy to understand and sympathize. If you know the thorough consideration t. than, you will understand why your wife instead of the modified computer center. First of all, your wife has had to endure and suffer mood swings, discomfort of the mother-in-law in a long time.

This is also the easy thing when Q which was born in a family of background vocal folds, are treated with respect and love. However, with her husband, love still trying to fulfill his duty to preserve the strawberry shelters.

However the discovery of sensitive images of stacked with former lover was what makes Q hurt deeply. Because the feeling of disappointment, loss should she have the negative reactions, discontent and lead to conflict with her husband.

To soothe away the hurt where my wife, you need to have the sharing, caring and expressed love to his wife so much he believed. He left home to work as the only constant raises more doubt, dissatisfaction where his wife only.

Furthermore, the time of pregnancy, child birth is also a special period in the life of the woman and they need the attention, take care of your partner. Only when his wife felt the respect, love where the husband then she slowly trust and love him back.

To find common voice between both husband and wife, you need to exchange frank with his wife's wishes and emotions myself. That will help your wife understand that he really loves his wife and child and family need, not as what he long suspected his wife.

I T also need to consider whether the continued living with her mother's good solution for your marriage or not? By if continued living with her mother, having to endure the insults, name-calling and shoving her actions then will also be very difficult to maintain family happiness.

If possible, you should arrange in private to avoid the collision, there is no contradiction between his mother and his wife. During this time, to heal the marriage, he should spend more time for family, more interest to his wife.

The Organization of the cosy family feast or trips away also the hint or for desire to heal his happiness. You can also look to the support of relatives or friends of his wife to ask for them to chat, share, positive impact to your wife.=