When the daughter-in-law to 'teach' the mother-in-law again

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"Don't you eat then I just know to cook like, know others decry, at home she never knew taught me...". (Artwork)

After more than two months making strawberry, Velvet (vo) native home, enough food without her husband come along. See strange but people haven't asked facilities in a hurry. Wait after a meal, a new joke: he he "proposed a new bride testimonials after two months the footsteps back home my husband!".

Responded playfully of the people, the new bride just hatched a smile as wilt: "bored him. I never stand her husband mother!". "Hey, he looks gentle and seemed pleasant but also difficult?". Smiley smiley face but velvet doesn't seem a little joke: "not difficult mother-in-law which is you ... hard!". Velvet in a basic and family. But getting married in the travellers but mothers which is the daughter of original Hanoi should train up their child very thoroughly about the family finances. Not only mastered needlework, embroidery, flower, cooking, she also taught his son the ratio I accompanying redness, chi li to show his work, make sure the are, the sophistication of the daughter.

Right from small, two sisters were mother taught Velvet from the smallest things such as washing, how to clean Bowl, before eating to wipe the Bowl how chopsticks for the Bowl dry and look sweet, not Thai beef latitudinal to when fry cook from being dai, chicken soft then the Thai capital to the Thai meat from being crushed to the longitudinal , what kind of sauce, suitable for food and spices to give out stars.

Little things but not the girl would also know as the women days in dietary were many families viewed light as now. Ideas that are equipped with the knowledge of the basic dietary as well, then I get cousin happy husband rather than why so much suffering as now? Do not fussy what should the whole family eating Velvet's husband regarded the meal just out, eat to get enough nutrients, so that sufficient work and not considered a meal as the place to reunite, mounted members of the household.

But then the Shivraj can't stand her cooking style is "clutter" of her husband's mother. With Velvet, boiled spinach they must remove the vegetables out rowing, stick out for new cold vegetables coming to disk rather than just using chopsticks crab tons of vegetables from the saucepan and let the disk to remove the vegetables until lemon spinach twist together all clusters, very aesthetic loss.

With Velvet, when soup onion finely chopped right then left when sauteed with Thai song to give in rather than have something at Thai patterns into a short not short out, not long out of the House as long as her husband. The little disagreement in the culinary conversation, stories of daily activities makes her husband mother-bride becomes distant, never a voice. My cousin always mouth qingming to everyone:

"I say very gently but my mother always told me my husband teaches, that the husband should not fussy type of trouble". So, mother bride husband like the moon with the Sun. Not been outspoken comments such as Velvet, mother-in-law of bride life sisters United (District 3-HO CHI MINH CITY) has more tension. Flowers and Long are all university graduates, have stable jobs, be loved, respected colleagues. They know each other for a long period of 5 years and finally decided to get married. Long made in a workshop Manager at Tan Binh company (HO CHI MINH CITY. HCM). The United States is the Japanese teacher of a secondary school in District 3. Life 2 husband and wife United also belied, long long also have extra help to balance for the born of the family 2.

Thought their lives would be happy, if not solved the difficult and or sulking of mother-in-law. The United States is the model of the modern woman, young and dynamic, with regard to the work of the school or at home you are doing scientifically, logically and correctly.

From the cleaned homes, cooking, taking care of my husband, you are a complete and neat. But the thing that makes the mother 's husband is not satisfactory, because so far she is the driver of all work in the home. Mother-in-law Cook, she used her favorite dishes regularly and set up again several times a week. From small family soon spoil should she just do the work in the House to your liking ourselves.

Right from the day her husband mother marry, because do not know cooking that father-in-law must guide how to cook some of the daily dish that he knew. Initially, the United States of trying to endure should not have conflict would occur. However, since the baby, often suffer from vomiting due to sickness, just hearing the smell of my mother's dishes, her husband had her discomfort and nausea. To change the situation on the United States initiative, please allow the mother-in-law is cooking serves both. United know How to cook tasty, the dishes of her husband and father-in-law fun praise. But since then she get the unpleasant insights from her husband's mother.

The first is by face but no consent, she also ate food cooked by the United States, also praised, but then back off Kettle noodle processing package sit to eat. Father-in-law didn't dare left Italy's wife and the like and order were restored only after few days bringing Flowers. Not cook, United sought suggestions for mother-in-law: "Mommy, I saw on television they say must change the daily dish, a week to eat fish once! Mom or cook a repetitive dishes, I fear it will not be complete for all substances, mom! ".

Feel upset because daughter onto the teaching of life, far from husband mother gray face, her voice angry dude?: "She does not eat then I just know to cook like, know others decry, at home she never knew taught me...". Listen to yelled at his parents, insult to the United States only sees choking uất memories up his chest, tears flush down and felt his legs not standing just lie in wait for the khịu down. That evening, when he saw his son just about to the door, her mother-in-law gave Sin daughter-in-law grabbed sailings:

"She's so formidable, both parents must teach how to live, how cooking. How many years now that's cooking, mom raised the child who Long. I to his wife mixed with mom! ". Although the fastidious mother but when heard recounted Long cold hand should do mercy still with your wife during 1 week. To "teach" the whole lifestyle Suicidal, a land girl Phu Xuyen (the former Ha Tay), other trouble with the mother-in-law. Mother-in-law who is Suicidal xởi lởi, easy near should also be quite many people cherish. While the computer "or" story, "in the House has not expressed beyond the lane has her" wall, causing many families to take phen. Suicidal husband mother has a somewhat special temperament that is what also doesn't hide are aliens a day. Have illness, what happens in the House, whether the delicate story as each family's income may be how much the couple arguing about something, her son and daughter-in-law today angry at getting past each other to how ... is she tells the "tribe of" for all the neighbors to hear.

Damn my fears, neighbors have heard no, they deduced, chattering around makes the whole family when suffering with the rumors from pouring in. There are times, Raised just pimp motorcycles into the House after a day of going to retire in the Agency saw her neighbors ran to pull Austria whispered: "? The couple are you still mad at each other again? Two minutes before she heard an argument that would compound the whimpering and crying I in the room? What she did say I news to the extent demanded written single again?

Don't be stupid like honey, the couple is literally the glue paint, don't touch each other angry little is demanded, not divorced! ".

So, the other day, in a room at the back closet in the stats that Suicidal unintentionally stuck his hand bleeding. Pain too so when my husband wound, she has cried little. Don't know how to listen out in the husband's mother told neighbors, and then they embellished the story the couple Raise arguing to remove another level to the place. Depressed and angry that the rumors where happen to families, Raised there told her mother her husband about what should and should not say to someone in addition to the body of vạ procession to Miss then immediately she has expressed opposition. She said she had been living all these years, this does not need to teach wise daughter. Emotional mother-in-law-bride which none knocking, the hour for no chipped screamed.

There have been "taught" bride mother-in-law? Behave with mother-in-law is one of the things that cause the most stress when you have children, 1/4 of young mother revealed. Not little sisters confirmed, they find it difficult to adapt to the "first woman" than being sickness.

Ignore the case of the seal has always flouted, treated with mother-in-law is a way silly mixture, the girls in these cases all have gentle suggestions to her husband and comments right, not wrong. So why are they still not mother-in-law? According to psychologist Zheng neutral, expert consultant of the 1088 Psychology: "The daughter-in-law of the House my husband not when Italy mother-in-law. Because each home has a private style called his different style. No bride due to her that her son was due to selection.

So should they not be suggestions to parents husband changes themselves who should be changed to merge with them. Also if they are suggestions that want to acquire mother-in-law in case you mother-in-law daughter-in-law, have intimate feelings.

Should first of all be cause of sympathy with his mother-in-law by: be very respected mother-in-law, because the elderly easy to embarrass themselves. Before doing any work done at all must listen to the advice of his mother, if not Italy, then paused again, not doing.

No suggestions about lifestyle, habits of the family home or renovate. Absolutely avoid comparisons to his home to decry the House husband, praising his home ".  =