You to eat and make my wife pregnant.

About half a year ago, two of my friend from the countryside to the city business, friendships between us to date has been for 30 years. Two strangers in strange lands, water in the city, no one close, standing on the stance as friends, I have an obligation to help them. I invite them to eat, my wife cooking delicious, people eat rice together are also very fun, gradually as of the date on which they regularly come to my house to eat the rice.

In it, have a friend name X, say now? He is a good person, but the harsh talk, like in others, children say awkward on, would also become subject to ridicule him. For example: I complained the dish slightly salty, today my wife hasn't said anything, he has started to fray: "Why You say so, his wife hard cooking for my husband to eat, no thanks then left still leaves line look deeper ..." He's so I hook this style, making his wife increasingly unhappy with me, her eyes looked at me also on a lukewarm. I understand her mood, a feeling I didn't love her, on the other hand, is cowardly I blame you say hook also does not respond. I am a honest, nor to the belly, all over again but that she said no but harsh idea, so I choose silence.

Him before as a still come to my house to eat rice, still says the hook I, type relationships in my family also began to strain. Once, because a I and his wife quarrel a few questions, I slightly higher voice makes her feel oan memories, crying sobbed. Right at the moment he appears, drag my wife out to the living room to sit, don't know the two people they were told the story, but he to women is always a considerate tenderness. The two of them talk very long talk my wife's face had color done bit changes, her happy face. From that day onwards, relations between my wife and he increasingly loved, what she just said to him, and he always makes her laugh. I'm not jealous, but blood no think again, why can doubt your wife and you yourself are, so I choose to pretend not to know anything.

Wife's eye for increasingly exotic I, in addition to apathy also despised, even disgusted, she doesn't want to see me. One evening, I and she seriously talk to each other for so long, I asked her what other thoughts or trót love other men. She featured the battle dragged, thrown breaking the Goblet on the table, yelled at me to not be insulted her. The instrument of a talk that day is both a cold war us for weeks.

My wife is pregnant, mood swings, she wants to give up the baby, I do not agree, the baby is apart of me, I dare you not to do so. His wife was hậm unpleasant hực, I mean: "or is not your child, should you want to remove it?". Her angry: "Children born out of the child who is know nothing". Actually, I say so is there a reason, from after the birth of the second child, I always pay attention to titles, 7 years is not what happens, why now pregnant again? I can not doubt.

On 9/6, I get to go out, drink some wine, has just entered the House, she saw the form of lếch thếch of my angry, said I like this here a long while. I do not tolerate certain hands beat her, she's taken aback having up: "You take me, today he hit me he is not a man ..." The result, I slapped her, since married to date, in the last 10 years this is the first time I beat her. This time, she left all week is not about, I go everywhere, sincere apology, finally she also suffered back, but asked me to write the paper complained, the content was: "after this absolute does not drink alcohol, absolute no wife, wife go where not asked, from now onwards do not sleep together anymore".

This is what the divorce paper, but I'm forced to agree, if not she will leave two children again. Look, I feel very distressed, but feel hard to understand in those days go, she lived where?. At this time, he appeared, standing resolute mitigating the wife, he told me I should not drink alcohol, not as his wife. Words of him causing the oan memories inside my wife, my wife tears worthwhile sobbed. Then he led my wife out to the living room.

In my heart is full of doubt, more and want to know what they are saying, so, I pretended out the living room phonecharger, able to turn on the recorder to record the conversation between two people, I tell them to go out there. At me about is also at two of them go out, I hastily grab the phone, shaking body: "I miss you, I miss you, yesterday you star a message that I can't answer..." "In England, now what to do, there is still ... man you don't have anything nice." Blow your mind, stop, I used as little effort comforting themselves: finally calm, nothing at all formidable, not sure this has to be the truth.

I sat down to try to calm down, think carefully what is going on and sit waiting for her home to ask for all out. 10 h dark, she returned, I asked her where to go, she said. I ask her and you're in a relationship, she said just friendships. I let her listen to the recording, just listen to the first paragraph, she sped to turn it off. After that, two us silent for so long. I asked why, she nonchalantly said: "He is not a man, and I want people to rely on".

But still not getting that nefarious relationship. At that moment, I do not control themselves, ran into the kitchen knife adjacent fruit Peel the socks on the neck she said wanted to lead her to see him. She fears the personalities, lẩy run at me not paying attention, she ran into the bedroom and shut the door, even for me in the pleading will not harm her, please open the door. I wait outside the door in a long while, too tired to go out to the living room sitting asleep or not at all.

Tomorrow morning, just open your eyes to see in the home is not a person, I'm afraid she led two children go away, hurried down the floor, going around looking. Turns out she lead my shopping, see shapes 3 people, I'm new towards relief.

I decided to take the family to the home of her brother in a few days, temporarily leave the House we are living in a time, because what happens here, I don't want to face it again. In the days at home, as her brother turns into a different person, removing the child, started stage drinking wine, smoking, not talking to anyone.

At one point I said to lead her out, she ain't looking at me, just calling for tired. In one month, I lost 10 kg lean, who like the dried fish, but she still wouldn't take pity what a nostalgic, I still remember her saying: "He was also skinny, dead, not related to you, even I don't govern themselves are children more of other people".

I don't want to torment each other more, either written for divorce, but being brother-in-law to tear away, because both spouses do not wish our family breaks.

A few days later, my wife suggested back in the House, she want you to continue to go to school, don't want to for adults affect children. But I am afraid, afraid to go back to that will recall the story of the past, I suggested to my parents that I care but she says if so we will divorce. But I still to his home his grandparents, two parents are arguing, I removed a lot of the day, so they are afraid I will go away, weeping nagging in the back. See 2 children crying carpet set, I feel myself a failed husband, is a useless father.

My wife again away from home, half a month ago, she said, go out shopping, then separate the toothpick. At go, she doesn't bring anything, I worried looking all over the place, a school friend of hers told me, the first day of my wife in her house, but on Monday borrowed a few clothes, a few million right away.

I haven't heard his wife call messaging, pretend to be texting her daughter also did not answer. Until a few days ago, she actively call for me to want to divorce. I say, divorce was also, but let's come together on this issue, but she resolutely didn't want to meet me, just told me to finish all procedures, she will go back to sign it, but if not, it will never come back again. Which of course, I intended to coax her back to live with me for some time, hope she will recover Center moved Italy. But all hope has been extinguished completely.

I still love my wife, although not manifest, married 10 years, love the Word as new love forgotten at well over time. I know I'm not calmly enough, not enough, but I'm still very interested in his wife. Her fear of cold winter, I never let her wash cloth, she said her stomach is not good, on a business trip where I also enlist go buy these snacks are good for the stomach about for her. We are husband and wife, how many years do not need the words sweet top lip, but in both understanding the feelings for each other.

I know the error is in me, if I'm not to him in our lives, can this outcome will not happen. I have overestimated themselves, so trust your friends, to then finally everything into this. But now what to say also useless? Can salvage your marriage ? I don't want my children do not have parents. Can anyone help me?=