(Phunutoday)-many could not believe that in the XXI century style still exist to teach children how harsh style. The Exchange on this issue, the famous artists such as: American singer, actress and comedian, Earning rowing Spring North American musician Huy Tuan has had conversations with Phunutoday on the method of education of their children.
After the video "boy 4 years being the father caught toplessness snow cold" bounce off the network and before that was the autobiographical Song "the battle anthem of the Tiger mother," published in the magazine Wall, has caused a wave of controversy over the method of education of their children.
PV: The perspective of the uk, I like watching the video "boy 4 years being the father caught toplessness for snow"?
North Spring humorist: If this is a normal mother, fathers on psychological factors, they must be an incredibly resilient people be able to accept and tolerate their children look so arduous workout.
The way he taught his son HA is the way that the ancient Ninja still training to turn himself into the people. Here, it is understandable why he Ha do so because of the boy's health.
We don't rush the critique, if when mature boy achieved certain results thanks to the severity of her parents then we will think about the way that your boy did?
Children with visual perception, how's the right reaction, because a special reason that fathers have ballast to his children.
So, don't be so took pictures of babies crying begging his father to acknowledge and raise his own perspective. However, I am not the person who can do things like he did with their children.. HA
Singer my Linh: As a mother, how to teach their children somewhat unscientific. The instruments have the sentence: "Love to hate, for sweet prices for roi for Bui" but the roi of other love with abuse.
All such actions with the baby for 4 years too, it might cause you to panic and the obsession to when mature. Myself will not use that way with you.
Actor Arjun Collection: rowing Every person, every family has different child education but have to fit the personality of each child. Huyen also did not agree with the way of the couple he Ha. When they asked the boy lying down snow, Legendary truly harsh with your child to see them too.
"Children like baby dolls on the Spike", his parents never have to take the good things for your child. Ourselves, to see the sky turn wind is a warm coat for the right dress lo, how he Ha education by getting it to run on the snow like a punishment. That is not acceptable.
Composer Huy Tuan: Of course I did not agree with his methods. To me, teaching the young like will cause a negative reaction to the child.
If the child is doing things that it enjoys, it will absorb that became faster, was made to run on the snow like that adult left unbearable situations indoor children.
The work of father though it brings the child itself is also not enough understanding and thinking to understand that it is a good idea. The child caught doing it do not like will be very puzzled and hurt.
PV: Children are very much active at are at making parents mad. You will do when his son made a mistake?
North Spring humorist: I am a very strict father. Roi associated with love and trade is also to the awareness and maturity.
When the child was 6 months old, I was working out for me the sense, listening to her parents. I have the concept: "ahem", just what that work see: "ahem" is knowing I don't agree. I trained the the conditional reflexes so you very little since.
Singer my Linh: Ghost absolutely not apply sanctions such as the locked or yanked, with these outrageous actions, then the Component will apply penalties with deterrent.
Children are very immature soul and sensitive so all those parental conduct brought extreme too are not good. When young offending, often talking to the children understand. Then they will solve our problem but under his supervision.
Actor Arjun Collection: rowing For that to hit a lot, I will blow incessantly and not afraid anymore should guest is limited. At home, or you're not threatening for your home, you are there to play anymore if not done her homework.
The legends always know son, sometimes holding the whip but never did, never effective teach you know listen, explain for you to understand. The second new Occult home baby 2 years but not been guest mother ever. His point is say no to domestic violence.
Composer Huy Tuan: Theoretically very is easy to say, but actually very difficult because every child has a different personality, so parents should also select according to your child's personality to teach them.
In my opinion, is the best measure you, but this measure not everyone did. I think many people have thought of that but not always successful in becoming the friend of children.
PV: These at their leisure, the siblings spent time for you like?
North Spring humorist: Free a little bit is that I usually give the grandchildren of home visiting his paternal grandparents. Usual, the evening before going to sleep, I still tell stories of "Jelly", "thank you," and "the story of the dog Rôtky" it spray venom for how the child listened.
After the story, I go to play 10-15 minutes then go to sleep.
Singer my Linh: On vacation, and he also tried to play me said it knew it. Also I try daily to take the time to chat with me, his home, both at their home should be broad or gardening together.
Spirit wants for me, to have a bowl of soup one must plant vegetables how strenuous.
Legendary actor and Currency: Due to the Legendary home still small grandchildren should in addition take care sleep meal, I always try to spend his spare time for the grandchildren when the ride, when the exterior sides of their visits.
There are the same at all go buy the book to read about the evening for me, was the nephew of the legendary House enjoyed listening to my mother reading comic books.
Composer Huy Tuan: My family as well as other families, then you go for free at play, more money for your travel.
Mainly the daily parent time chatting with the children watching them think nothing, want nothing, but talking to them do not simply come, if not into a question right.
PV: Recently on the mass media have said much about how to educate the children of the Tiger mother, father Wolf. Do you think about this educational perspective?
North Spring humorist: I am not criticising that the mother, father, though that I won't do. The father, the mother may work out for your child the sense but they forgot how to teach their children the awareness led to the missing of them will make a way to shield sexually, from not very proper perception can cause the opposite reaction.
In life there are now mothers and fathers, is transforming itself into a tiger mother, mother, father of lions that they do not recognize.
Singer my Linh: Mothers in his autobiography "the war Song of the mother Tiger" itself is a good one by Harvard University graduate, can say that's a pretty successful man, so of course she desires his children to be a genius.
Also the viewpoint taught me of the ghost, do not want to teach their child into a genius, as if assuming it doesn't have one? Because prodigy or genius is a terrible burden, do so the child must always bear the burden of expectations on the role of it and it can't take off.
He wanted his children to live happy, is a Buddhist, I understand that everything is finite despite who you are, you are famous or beautiful you, what are you alarmed that you always have to strive to become the number one then you really unhappy.
Her fear for the sentence: "you are the pride of the family". Themselves often tell you is you don't have to be responsible for anyone, I just have to bear the main responsibility.
Actor Arjun Collection: rowing I don't agree with the method of teaching the children of Amy Chua (mother Tiger), because of the way that it sounds too harsh but really not the child would also be applied.
Maybe when we get the right young parents to force them to be but when we already have the perception they will find a way to protest and the evidence is the second daughter of she has voiced objections and even hate speech.
That the mother pressed the child into the framework to become a prodigy is satisfying the ego of her.
The son of Legendary now are small, yet clearly is like job, but if you have gifted and like I will facilitate not just to get you learning most popular, carefree living along with friends and then later will calculate the following.
Composer Huy Tuan: I think those cases are very useful, hope that the mother's and the other fathers, their children are also successful but not the model, so we are forced to follow. Know how mothers fathers have no penalties or whip their children still rocketing the usual success.
Each child has a different capacity and personality, the same method of education for every child may not bring the same results.
Even the Tiger's mother also had two different results. Her meek sister, the most listened to my mother but she most children then return, protest and express his ego.
I agree the method of teaching the children of Westerners has many advantages such as to respect the choice of the children, encouraging creativity, and don't appreciate the score but never fit in with the family.
Teaching the way of tormenting the Tiger mother and father Wolf to compel you to be successful but never makes fun feel happy, that to me the joy of the children is also the joy of her parents.
Thank you, sister! His father taught the Eagles time crazy =