My husband and I have been married for 3 years, because of the difficult economic conditions, so my husband and I did not live separately and decided to live with our parents. Everything is fine, I always try to please my mother-in-law so that the relationship does not go to the extent of conflict.
But ever since my brother-in-law married and decided to live together in the same house, everything so bad has happened. In the past, people said that the daughter-in-law was afraid to live with her mother-in-law, but now I have to correct that living with my sister-in-law is really miserable.
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I used to be quiet and quiet, but I could do a lot of things. In contrast, my sister-in-law has a soft mouth and a good ability to talk. Because of that, the relationship between mother-in-law and sister-in-law is always good . of course, that means I have to leave. Sometimes I see my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law whispering to each other, I feel a bit sorry for myself. But whatever, I think I can live well for myself.
My wife and I are also trying to collect money to move out. After a while, we contributed 500 million, knowing that my parents-in-law also had savings, so my wife and I opened the loan to our grandparents, and still paid the normal interest. But then Mom said:
- Old parents do not have any savings. There are only 50 million only.
Hearing that, my husband and I were shocked, because we both remembered that our mother-in-law had a savings book of nearly VND 400 million. But now that she said so, we had to accept it.
I thought everything would stop there, but once I saw her mother-in-law signaling to go into the room to talk. I did not care at all, but the moment I went to hang my clothes in the sister-in-law's room, I saw her mother-in-law rubbing her sister's hand in the savings book of VND 200 million and saying:
- Husband and wife who intend to buy a house, take it and use it, never return it to their mother. Remember not to let the couple know.
Hearing my shock, I couldn't help but scream.
- I thought you were only 50 million, it turned out that you have a big savings book for your sister-in-law. The same is the scene of children, why mothers respect children so much. How many years have I been a daughter-in-law to criticize anything? What kind of mother would treat her and her husband and children like that.
When I spoke, my husband also came down to witness, my mother-in-law and sister-in-law were ashamed. At that time, my husband declared that from now on, if anything happened, I would not call my husband and I anymore. After that, we decided to borrow from friends to buy a house to move into a private place but living together like that really could not stand it anymore.