5 incantations used by men of the moon and flowers make women feel compassion for themselves, do not be foolish to believe

Give me some time

His 'little time' could be months, years or forever. His 'little' concept is too vague. If you go on believing in the words of his secret, his promise: "I will do the divorce procedure soon .", you will get deeper into this spiral of guilt and wrong feelings.

His wife does not care, does not understand her husband

These are also very smart men. They blame their wives for not caring, not caring, not understanding their husbands, . to rationalize their search for you - a single girl with a reasonably pleasant reason: "Make friends to confide, share and give advice ".

So day by day, he "trades" with you a dozen of his family's junk stories (mostly telling his wife's crime), and then seems to need your advice. Being "trusted" as such, so in return you enthusiastically advise and help.

Once again, you begin to confess things secretly to him. Just like that until one day, you suddenly realized that you were too used to his presence in life. You feel that you two are really "good friends" for each other. That means you've "trapped".

Perhaps, your indispensable action now is to fall into his lap and dump all the sins on that "heartless wife".

'We are separated. My wife adopts children '

Listening to separation, many people are sure that ten stories break down. So, the woman also because of this news, she stabbed her head at any time.

But do you know? 30 is not yet Tet. Even if he is separated for 3 years but has not resolved his wife before, his current status is still married. And it is unknown whether the other wife will turn out to be "jealous" all the time.

You are a misfortune

Rich in compassion and compassion is a common point of women. Understanding this characteristic, many men wrote a tragedy that the main character is him with an unhappy marriage.

The "classic" confidences will be: "I don't love my wife but only because my family is obliged", "We all fell out of love with each other because of our children", "My wife makes more money so I consider often husbands "," You have been horned by your wife and can't forget this pain ". There will be countless pains set up to make others sympathize.

Maybe at first, the girls didn't want to get involved, even want to run away from these guys (because they were married). But, standing in front of his pain, they either soften their hearts or are afraid of "hurting" more hurt so they stand back, give a little compassion, by agreeing on the sharing side, encouraging him overcome grief.

Unfortunately, the woman's heart is weak. In addition, the boundary between love and love in them is often faint, and in the end, they are conquered by the other guy.

'I regret not seeing you sooner.'

Women are often wise at everyday times, but they are extremely soft to hear such drop-offs. Because of what he said, it was simply to lift her image and importance in a moment.

Since then, the illusionary woman in her place in the hearts of men and the feeling of herself being destined for him. But to them, every girl is wonderful and their wife is one of those victims.