99% of men are fascinated by strange externalities for this reason

Women often think that if the husband has an affair, he will find a more beautiful, attractive person than his wife, but in fact it is not always the case. What do men need and want when they have an affair with people who are bad and poor in their wives? This is definitely a headache for many sisters, but whatever happens has its causes.

The original cause is the difference in the way men look at their wives and your wives. For his wife, over time they no longer look passionately. What is good, the advantages they see in their wives are no longer clear. Not only that, they are easier to see defects in wives than advantages. But with someone else's wife, they see all the good points.

Strangely, men always find their wives are worse than others' wives. Because of that, men find it harder to regain the feeling of loving their wives like the first day. And with other wives, they have more desires.

What men see in other people's wives is only advantages. But with that woman's husband, he will also see all his wife's shortcomings. And the fact that many marriages break down is because they both see weaknesses in each other. Marriage is only sustainable when both can find advantages in each other constantly, to compensate for the bad points. Marriage as well as life, which does not lack beauty, is just impatient to seek.

The second reason is psychological preference for the novelty of men. With his wife, over the years, men will no longer feel as new as they were. They are more likely to develop feelings of discouragement with the woman living next door. But with another's wife, being a woman they don't have, they have a strong sense of wanting.

The third reason is the need to conquer. No matter how good and perfect his wife is, men have not seen enough. What has been, men have no sense of conquest. What is not available makes men want to conquer. And many adulterous men also think that they must have what they don't have.

Marriage is a difficult road with many turns. An absent-minded minute can also make you pay dearly for the happiness of your family and the future of your child. Therefore, be cautious and contemplate carefully before deciding to 'cross the road'.

Signs of adultery men

1. Concern or neglect your wife excessively

When adultery, men often have psychological guilt, so some people will try to care for their wives to atone, compensate. However, there are also some who seem cold and indifferent to their wives because they have a feeling of fullness with them.

2. Suddenly changing your personality, or getting annoyed with irritation

When having an affair, your husband has signs such as suddenly changing his personality, easily getting angry just because of little things or no good reason. Besides being cold, indifferent no longer care about you as before, showing that he has an 'out-of-stream' relationship.

Want more private space

Spending time with yourself is normal and encouraging. But when it goes beyond daily misery, or more often, or less, it's a sign that something has happened. Your husband always tries to stay away from you, sleeps at the couch, always goes to the toilet and sits for a long time or tries to find a place where you don't pay attention to the mistress to avoid your supervision.