Suffering because his wife crying pleading me to divorce

My wife and I married nine years, have two children in fine enough is enough. I am engineer, his wife is the head of marketing of foreign banks. She is the type of smart, ambitious women, pride, enthusiasm and eat say a charm. Due to the nature of the work I usually go to work away from home, home a few days a month.

Suffering because his wife crying pleading me to sign divorce.

When my wife was pregnant second grandchild I affair with her Secretary to go under construction. I came up with Bo not because of love, not through deprivation, lonely away from home; also her husband not that favorable circumstances should I do not restrain. We like two guys away from home comforting each other.

A year round role then the curtains, my wife read the messages sent to your Bo set full of I. At first I was turned down, after his wife gặng asks animal Lynn forever. Pride I proved real need, my wife does not understand, the reverse charge does not sympathize, men need women care. My wife asked me to terminate if not going to family gatherings. Angry d. wise, I scare if the public no longer face would go home again and will go live with Bo.

The next home, his wife invited the two parties to the family meeting, clearly things are attached to divorce. Our parents are recommended to heal. Though not divorce but my husband and wife living together on the cold war even months don't talk, husband and wife as the enemy. I know the emotional rift never recovered. I want to love my wife but she doesn't pick up, I go home, she doesn't welcome, all day in the Office. Gradually I leave not salvage any more, just play with the child, the couple kept alive as two stranger in my wife.

Many times I came, located near his wife felt both her Crouch, both are awkward opposite can not, can not artificially love can't break up. Be my wife discovered I still affair with Bo, his wife did not accept that so frightful doesn't want to close. Four years ago the couple I don't. I discovered my wife are drinking for treatment of depression and about a recent years often insomnia is the use of drugs.

Her addiction to tobacco, smoking so that nails and the skin begins to yellow, to explain why stress-because. Many times I caught my wife okay just smoke just forgive something Gaga, I panic too pressed his wife to go visit, doctors said his wife suffered severe stress. The number's I do eat tricked, sued the prison demanding partner, mother card debt money society black, perhaps just worry for parents just take two dense work, too, her inner life, at least when talking with someone who should not have mind, help.

Then she had an accident fractures his hand don't quote me a sentence, whatever, asked to immediately resolve finished. Although such mental exhaustion but in front of others she always expressed the pride, who doesn't want to see his weakness, always perfectionist in everything so that no one had the opportunity to see often, blameless. She wants a divorce and I don't, I don't want to lose the family should not sign.

His wife turned to cry, khản voices please don't divorce, tormented me. I know her desperate and tired with the jumble of confusion, do not want to further burden pressure in marriage should ask his wife the opportunity to start over. I will be transferred closer to home to live with his family but also the opportunity for both?

If I had not removed his wife divorce alone, afraid her insufferable will worse, my child when living with the mother who has the problem of tobacco addiction back nerve, not to mention the peculiar social work must so my wife or drunk. Also start both long way, I feel discouraged when thinking the air chilly family, wife and house party debt pile have to live with the woman many bad habits. Please people give me advice.=