She's seriously wrong when an argument with the guy

1. Turn off the phone 

Very many people did this after the squabbles with the purpose of punishing the other half. This really is immature person's action. When the two occur in conflict, the word through the together that the problem has not been resolved, most likely he will call for you to say sorry, to explain, to find out the real problem or to express forgiveness (in case the error is you).

Off the phone action will surely make your partner's mind are confused because the problem occurs again more pain because there is the feeling that you don't care to their feelings.

2. Silence

Silent as to make the matter worse, the conflict is not resolved.

If you do not call/texting him after both had just undergone a fiery squabbles, and you also don't pick up the phone, do not reply to your message, you will surely have to regret this silence manners.

Silence in many cases is "gold" but for the handling of the conflict, then it's completely ineffective. On the contrary, silent as to make the matter worse, the conflict is not resolved. In the case of a partner is someone made a mistake, they will feel extremely repentant, day end as if you remain silent. Also when you are in error, will not have the opportunity for you to repair if you select silence with him.

3. Excuses and blame

Psychological professionals advise that, never try to justify yourself and find the excuse to blame him after the controversy. Although the mistake comes from the the behavior excuses, blame also does not have the effect good for the relationship are chipped.

Instead of just digging into the problem causing the two quarrel, the better way is you should focus seeks to end the discord between the two.

4. Saying sorry too soon

One of the mistakes many people or made after the quarrel that was sorry too soon. Sorry to be such a crucial dose when the pair angry at each other, but an apology at the time would develop new work then not everyone knows.

When you say sorry haste, she will think that you are not sincere. At the time, the conflict has not resolved, they will assume that you are sorry tangerines, stalks through the speakers with the aim to defuse the anger, not because you are aware of his mistake.

5. Think about that argument too long

Never thinking about the war just occur between two people for too long.

Because, when you continue to think about it, you'll just prolong the feeling of hatred and hurt in his mind. The only real argument ends when you let it drift into oblivion. There, two new people quickly reconciled and reconnect emotionally with each other.

6. Share the mood on facebook

This is also one of the more common mistakes that no little girl has suffered when arguing with her lover. Comes from the depressed mood, not people share, mind, many took up the network revealed his feelings.

Can sadness be eased when shared with others, but you cannot figure out to be trouble after his actions. After a status full of mood, friends you will rush to ask what you are facing. And the like, you will as a deep sea more sadness, anger towards someone you love. In addition, your actions will accidentally cause the image ugly lover go in the eyes of your friends, your relatives. That is definitely something you do not expect if you still love the guy.

7. Deliberately makes guy jealous

People who love you are not jealous, but at the time of the sensitivity of the relationship, especially when two people are getting past the anger, the very guy jealous because you call the other guy in front of you.

Whether you intentionally flirt, meet other people in order to provoke the guy just does not end the conflict but also makes the relationship of two people who are at risk of facing a new war.

8. Don't give the guy a chance talk about contradiction

"I don't want to hear!", like you have closed every opportunity to resolve the conflict.

When the two of you arguing, maybe he would like to talk with you about the problem "between two people but you are not willing to listen to him speak. You left without a Word left or screamed: "I don't want to hear!", like you have closed every opportunity to resolve the conflict.

Anger, sadness, misery ... the feeling is unavoidable when you and him controversy. If you're really not in the mood to hear the guy say anything anymore, let's bluntly say you want to be alone, like to yourself and as long as better lap, you will hear the guy say.

9. "baskets of Stones hitting the nia"

Whenever a conflict occurs, many girls hot temper did not restrain themselves, they are hitting, yelling, don't even want to fight with the other half. This is the absolute need to avoid mistakes, because, every act of anger are not correctly. The spiritual damage already is more than enough so don't sow more physical anguish for someone you love after a quarrel.=

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