Husband shows signs of betrayal, wife should do this first, this is the only way to bring her husband home

Collect evidence

Obviously, everything will be unreliable if only based on the feeling, the unusual suspicions of her husband. Even though your sixth sense is really sharp, it's strong, but without proof, it's all just 'rich imagination'.

Men of adultery even have evidence that they still argue with controversy and say anything about poisoning suspicions. Want to arrest him or release his doubts, go find out the cause of all those doubts. When you don't make it clear, don't go crazy, be angry, just do the forest work, make your husband nervous and make the family atmosphere more stressful.

Be quietly saved from the smallest anomalies, most likely after all, that is the sequence of a husband's spectacular deception process, or it may be an unnecessary misunderstanding.

Look for specific evidence before you talk frankly about this issue, otherwise you will just make the relationship more stressful and not solve the problem at all.

Don't underestimate and attack your husband's mistress

The foxes out there are also much more evolved and evolved than before. They do not need anything, do not need money, do not need responsibility, do not need fame. What they need is simply love or naked and instinct rather than to relieve the physiological problem.

They are not foolish but challenge or sabotage other people's families. Those who knew what was only obedient to the needs of their lovers then returned him to his wife and children. They even reminded their lovers to remove all messages and be careful not to allow any lipstick to stick on his shirt.

So it is indeed dangerous. And so see the obvious problem in your adulterous husband. It is a responsibility to blame him for being too weak to be too 'curious about'. After all, every case is equally bad.

Ask friends and relatives

Of course, good breeze to show off, this should not be brought to the world to tell the world what to do, but you should not hold onto your heart but face the problem alone. Look for friends or relatives - the person you trust most to confide in, ask for advice.

Outsiders will always have an overall and more comprehensive look, which will give you more objective and objective advice and plans. So, do not try to hug the skepticism, bewildered alone, probably the people around can free you from this ominous situation.

Forgive if possible

This is hard work for any woman. When you find out that you have a silver supplement, anyone thinks that it is hard to forgive, but when you calm down, consider whether you should continue your marriage. Think about your children, family, about what he treated you during the previous time.

Although the person is at fault, but once the husband regretted and asked for forgiveness, give him a chance, 'beat the person away, no one will run back'. This is also when you give yourself a chance, forgiveness also helps you get rid of anger, torment.

When you forgive, never repeat the story of your husband's affair. Don't take advantage of her husband's past mistakes to intimidate him, which will make him live forever in suffering and sometimes inhibiting.

Talk straight to your husband

After gathering enough evidence, taking more encouragement, encouragement and advice from friends and relatives, what you need to do now is to have a face-to-face, face-to-face conversation with your husband. Prepare carefully what you want to ask, ask and ask. Please clarify all the problems and concerns in your heart so that after the conversation, the couple will get the best answer, then choose the right solution to solve.

And remember, keep your mind alert during the conversation, though there may be frustrations, dissatisfaction but try not to let emotions overwhelm the conversation. Remember the purpose of starting the conversation, don't let your temper lose your unfinished story.

In particular, women need to remember not to impose everything, give evidence and question the suspicion and desire to find an answer, not to give the guilt of a husband who must have betrayed. Yes, the new dialogue is not too stressful but still maintains the story.

Don't dump all the errors by yourself

In the end, if the worst situation happens, ie the husband betrayed the truth, do not torment yourself, blame yourself too much. Do not think that you are incompetent, useless, do not have the ability to keep your husband, because men once have a romantic nature, once you run out of love, no matter how good your wife and children are.

The most important thing to do now is to let go, liberate yourself, end the chain of tired days with doubt and hurt to start another beginning, it will definitely be better and brighter.