My wife does not want to divorce but still love affair

My wife wanted us to stop the divorce so that adultery.

This year I'm 37 years old, my wife less 4 years. We take the time to also be almost a dozen years. Have to say, so many people, we are having a life that they dream of. The economics of the couple I am very pretty, both made in the foreign company should account for the money we are not struggling fend for your life. Families of the two sides, surgery we are teachers, parents, family status should be able to say is that the two sides sign, subjects for posterity. But sadly, we are not happy.

We have 2 children, a son, a daughter. Two of my children are very hard and study well. But about 3 years ago, husband and I have separated. We do not find should generally both spouses never said a Word to each other. Then, I found a woman to understand and sympathize with her. Actually, the first time I felt extremely guilty because anyway before the family, the society still has his wife. I apologized to my wife when I have sex even though I have not done anything mistress and too limited.

I have thought a lot and decided to confess the truth to his wife. I think over the past 3 years the couple lived happily enough also was. Perhaps, have also come at us out together, especially when I have found the woman with her than the other. But I am really surprised to hear my wife say that no divorce, if desired, the one he made, so that adultery and not divorce.

Further surprise when I know my wife also. They pair together before when I find other friends. Because apparently people love so that my relationship and the new wife could not salvage. We increasingly distant from each other. I thought, if I am angry to know that then probably I will try to put forth a proposal to the couple resumed. But I'm just surprise rather than absolutely not feel angry, don't see themselves being dumped despite her obvious who betrayed me before.

I suggest a divorce but my wife lays out why we should not do that. She said the first is because the two sides family, the second is for the children. Our family are Catholic family, she doesn't want to have to bring the parents when to have a child quit his wife, leaving her husband. Also children will also gauge of when parents tan forums rips Nghe. Therefore, just the two sides respect each other's own life , the one he made, not jealous, not exasperate each other.

Actually I am very puzzled by this thinking way ahead of my wife. I think it also has storage but also with the woman I love, could not catch her live a lifetime without a diocese. Anyway, I know she's also looking forward to the wife, was born the son for me. But as my wife said, if we divorce now will have a lot of disturbance in the life of the couple. Ever we live too quiet so if divorced now certainly everyone will be shocked many.

I fret should resolutely stop to love, claiming divorce by are not or do as my wife says, literally just lived in Council ready, dream, the one he made, the relationship of who's worried? I hurt you, do not want the suffering but that artificially happy don't understand and then will get to ever? And how do I convince the bulbs I accept a fate not that long I Party?=