' They found the home my husband doesn't allow me please '

Reporter (REPORTER): After sharing her story, her life has nothing changed?

Mrs. Nguyen Thi Hau: When deciding to write about his life, I have been thinking much about that people read my story, they will think? They have said that I do the right thing or they will condemn me, saying I do not know the fate of living for most of his life alone and let's worry about the care her husband as I made a promise to the deceased?

There's pretty much something unexpected happened to me when my mind was posted on Phunutoday. There are readers who supported me, who says ready to help me, there are also people who blame me but I never suspected that her husband's family has denounced I panned and pressed me to li Kiss if I strongly want to have children.

PV: In her share, she has said she does not know her husband's relatives. So why now has the appearance of them here?

Mrs. Nguyen Thi Hau: Indeed, from the time of making the bride, I know my husband and her husband's parents. I only know three my husband has a younger brother, but very little when the three prompts about his brother. And to the mother of my husband, I totally did not know she had relatives who would not.

After my mind is there a strange man comes home, claiming to be the brother of three my husband. I've never met the brother of three so I don't know what his words are true or not though I see he has the very similar to three of my faraway.

Perhaps he also anticipated I would suspect so he carefully took the papers to prove their identities. He says I called him uncle, uncle Khan. Khan's uncle told me a story that I never doubt to.

Actually, three my husband and I always keep close relationship with each other, just because my mother-in-law hates Uncle should pay attention never coming home.

When Alive, every met, three my husband always thanks to note that when I lose, I take care of my husband and of course, I will also accept always the guarantee of non-family assets fell to me and make sure I'm not doing wrong with what I was promised.

I would like to thank everybody who has interest in my story

PV: So the brother of three her husband disagreed with what you please, from other men?

Mrs. Nguyen Thi Hau: Well. My uncle vehemently opposed. I said, if I go ask the other man from a later, property that my husband's parents have hard building up will fall into the hands of an outsider. My son will be outsiders in this family.

Uncle Khan said, that's not acceptable. Note also told me that if I wanted to have children, IVF and let retrieved sperm from my husband. I say this is probably the uncle Khan will be on hand when reading the newspaper's anger, but truly, I'm not brave enough to bear children for the husband.

I have to think about in vitro fertilization, born to my husband a child blood blood, for my husband's parents a grandchildren to business but I am so scared, I'm scared that my incredibly well I will be like my husband.

If so, I'd rather not do not be born in the world is probably still better. Just look at my husband's knowing, living a life not people really poor and how.

PV: So she decided to please you as his original desire again?

Mrs. Nguyen Thi Hau: Honestly, I don't know how to do it. They found the House my husband won't let me please you. Uncle Khan said, if I do so then I will have to separated with my husband. I said, before losing, the mother-in-law has allowed me to go get married, just me not giving Free but my uncle is strongly disagree.

I said, that's just my mother-in-law lyrics in generic at Lam speak out, i.e. when her parents not awake, moreover nobody testified to me it all. I don't want to double co with this because I really don't need the family's heritage.

I said I will please you and written pledge that I would not touch one of the Free money but you're still not agree. I still Uncle li Kiss if I determined to please you.

PV: Why not choose the solution li married? By then divorced, she still can care for Free?

Mrs. Nguyen Thi Hau: I also was thinking about this but the real term, I fear that, once separated, I will not list what parts to to care for Free. Uncle Khan can also would not agree to my back and worry Free.

Moreover, even I myself fear that, when the legal constraints of the other end, then I will not be a worry for an Encyclopedia anymore by then, I worry for my life.

PV: Say so, so can desire to please her son will be shelved?

Mrs. Nguyen Thi Hau: I will try to convince Uncle Khan though I know is going to be very difficult. Even the stories I bring his mind to write up the report, I did not agree. I said to do so would affect the reputation of my husband's family.

"I don't think her husband's cheek and then lose three like to do anything" – Which is the text of the sentence says Uncle Khan told me. In fact, there are very few people know that my husband's parents have children. They still thought that the mother of my husband was infertile. The stories have a child are three parents withheld.

Muslim wedding, the number of guests invited to share the fun with family also was only about twenty people. Mother-in-law when she comforted me. She said is not like doing to, afraid of people go to this cable, the other envelope. Later on, my new bride or mother do not love to have more people know her mother was born a son.

PV: Among the readers who sent letters and phone calls to her, she has impressed in particular with who?

Mrs. Nguyen Thi Hau: There are quite a lot of people agree with the condition that I give out is getting the money, and then disappeared forever as soon as I get pregnant, will not bother my life but actually, I'm also greedy so I want the three of her children will be a bright, intelligent people.

However, now that there are more important by this desire does not make practical or not. I have read your messages read, talked the phone with a few people, I especially love with a Man Who's name.

I talked to him twice. Both times he doesn't have anything about which I had confided on the report which again just ask my husband. He said he is a physician specializing in neuroscience. You Mind told me that there are cases of people like my husband, if properly treated, the illness could be relieved and my husband will realize better.

He said very sincerely and earnestly. I would like to thank everybody who has interest in my stories and special thanks to him because he was interested in me in a special way.

PV: Readers want to communicate directly with you then can do?

Mrs. Nguyen Thi Hau: I don't want his phone number being posted up. I also do not have much time to answer the phone because I have to take care and look out for Free. So I urge people to sympathize and contact me through the email address: Hauviet349@yahoo.com.vn. I sincerely thank you!

PV: Thank you! Wish all the good things will come to you!=