My husband treated unfairly with the wife's parents

Bride mother-in-law) – each month my husband hid his wife sent to 1 million elderly parents, in addition to the 20/10, 8/3, even on 2/9 and he also has a gift for my husband's parents. While my parents living touch touch it, you never know the phone . Hey, you, my sister. I'm a regular reader of the share, but had never written the letter to you. Today, I have one to share, please send it to the siblings. We wish to be consulted. Husband and I have been married for almost 10 years and had 2 children. My husband is the second son in a family of 3 brothers, however, were alone my husband is going out to work, while others only work at home, should also limit the income than my husband.

Each month my husband hid his wife sent for his parents, 1 million, in addition to those holidays, he also has a gift for my husband's parents. While my parents living touch touch it, you never know the phone.

You say that but also not too well-off couple. Since we have been married for almost 10 years, but there are new again, buying a House is debt, income should also be divided into 5-bolt 7. A child, a section intended to repay, and spend every day. Because of the difficulty of this so I had to try to do more, and how much income I both openly with my husband, what spending also are publicly with her husband, rather than have the term "hidden agenda". In the account, I also do not have an account would be devoted to "foreign" at all.

I thought, my effort, and the "transparency" in its spending, the husband must also recognize and respond to transparency by transparency in spending and pay off income for me, but my husband didn't. Long, monthly you hide I pay for my parents at home every month 1 million without letting me know. I know this because my sister said to me. Not only that, the holidays as on 8/3, 20/10, national day, even ... my husband also hid his wife, send money, send gifts to serve nursing elderly parents back home. T

Rong then my parents, still living it but you can't touch facility unfazed, well never know the phone about asking parents in the holidays, on 8/3, 20/10 not talking about sending gifts, cable. I feel depressed about the injustices of the husband with foreign parties, but I blame then you said your money to do more, he wanted no goal, I had no right. Moreover, his salary has taken me over, then I have to do more to account for private goals. I said, I also have the money to do more every month, but I also contribute to the common expenses rather than no account would be taken for my parents, or grandparents gifts during the holidays, my husband said that from now on I want to be more objective, goal, he did not manage to do more. Hear my husband said that I saw the news, as does the couple I still owed a few hundred million in Bank loans and both my parents over 100 million have yet to be charged, further two children go to school, the monthly tuition money lost to nearly 5 million, again have money to eat, Digest, go back , ... handicaps all costs a month not less than 20 million/month, not to mention the money to pay the debt.

That just looks at the wages of her husband was 10 million/month, and I was 8 million/month whether there is enough to live or not? I really feel sad about the unconscious mind, her husband's accident. You do not worry for my mother, for my little family. Or with him, both I and my combined nor by the lay out you?

Thought so, I would like to try something more, like to let go down the total for everything to come.

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