4 stages make marriage easy to crack, if it can be overcome, the husband and wife will be happy

1. Time 1 year after the wedding

Many people think that after the wedding, the two will be happy when the results of love are paid off by the wedding. But the truth is that this is the most easily divorced couple. The reason is so obvious, when love still does not show all bad habits, but when married, the two are free to live true nature that makes the enemy shocked. As a wife doesn't like her husband's dirty nature, she doesn't like lazy husbands. Husband is bored because his wife keeps grumbling, not as sweet as before .

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2. After giving birth to the first child

This is the time that makes men unable to hold back when their wives are busy giving birth to their children, so they cannot spoil themselves. But women who have finished their lives often get worse because they have to stay at home all day to take care of their children, not to go out and make them think idly. So now women still have jealousy, they want their husbands to stay at home and take care of their children but men do not like that and then culminate in the couple quarreling. Husbands feel that when their wives are born, they no longer want to be close to them, so they feel lonely and then come to an affair to fill their desires.

3. 10 years after marriage

The longer the marriage is, the more happy it is, this is the truth. By finding an eternal love it is very difficult. After going through the above two phases, you will fall into this third stage very hard. At this time, the couple lived together for so long that they were bored. Men like the novelty so they want to find other women. Women are also bored with husbands because they feel that their husbands no longer cherish themselves.

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4. The stage of entering middle age

At this stage, many spouses quarreled because there were many things to worry about such as taking care of old parents, taking care of their children and studying cooking. The wife did not want to stay at home only to do housework, but her husband was the mainstay of the economy, they did not know how to solve it properly, so that both of them argued.

These are the stages that any husband and wife will experience. If you want to overcome these 4 stages, you must both love and sympathize with each other. As the old man has a sentence: The husband and wife consented to slap the East Sea.