'Shock' when you life 'Self-indulgence'

Mai is a literature teacher in high school. Mai Tuan and taken together are 7 years, living quite happily and had a son. Recently, Mai finds her husband less fervent and less "stiff". You think you work hard so tired and no longer desires. This does not render Mai bother but also feel glad because she not interested with the "love". But then, the contingency of the husband made these aggressor Mai born. She noticed that he often went to bed very late, sitting at the laptop in the room worked. Night, Mai gently push the door step into the stupor when seen on a laptop screen is hot scenes, and Tuan's "alone".

Bang set me up, suffer, swallow the tears rush Tomorrow and then quietly on his bed. From her silent, with her husband, just look him scornful eye. Family air becomes heavy. Mai know not to share with anyone should seek expert advice with a series of questions: "why did he do that? He was sick or tired wife? What should I do? I feel for life this time became the depression of losing ".

He Rules in Thai HA Street, Hanoi also carries the melancholy, miserable when his wife entertaining by sex toy. The British couple were married over 1 year. Bedding is not life smoothly as you expect. He was "weak". But she never complained or expressed disappointment but also always motivated: "I love you and you know I always do my best to be glad. But ' it ' is not all. And I'm still always happy ". But the sad but he also reassured and the more love you more.

But recently, when the need to find a map in the closet, I'm curious to open the basket which she only used to contain your presumptuous little chart to see which one looks more like "that" is made of rubber. I think the pain tohis wife photo user c this tool to find the feeling. The unspeakable, the warm memories and the same anger swelled. I suddenly had the feeling of being cheated, her useless. I don't know what this face and behave with his wife.

In a survey of us with over 4600 people, when talking about the attitude if caught her husband "alone" to nearly 1/4 of you read that they will be sad but still more than happy to "husband" with others. In addition, 10 people will have more than one person felt miserable, thinking that her husband was sick or unattractive. Even, not least his wife will disgust, that it is a treason and insulting.

According to Dr. Dao Xuan Dung, expert on reproductive health and sexual health, masturbation is the behavior that brings pleasure to ourselves, often by hand or support tools, can have in both men and women (but higher in male rate). Masturbation or spoken to for in adolescence when the body is strong growth (puberty), sexual instinct should urge the need to seek clearance on themselves. This behavior reduces or ceases when there were already married or in love. However some cases masturbation there early at the age before puberty or still exist at all when you had sex.

Some overseas studies show that many people who still continue "Self-indulgence" throughout his life but was married, 75% of the young husband and 70% of the young wife sexual at least once in the month, he is not the person to go away (sailors, geological officials , Explorer, ...).

So, according to Dr. Dung, when your spouse "alone", you should not be considered too outlandish or the panic that should only learn digital because the engine would "other half".

Dung said, men often masturbate because no longer feel married life attractive or not find pleasure when having sex with your wife as yourself do at sexual habits. Cases do they have even a feel about the possibility of sex itself and saw the "deal" is also more easily is to confess to his wife. In addition, also does not exclude the possibility they thought to fly to a different object, can be called the adultery in the mind. And this is something that the wife easy attribution and not acceptable.

Women, also has many causes but the most common reason is not satisfied in the life of the couple, when you life too monotonous in the story "love" or don't know how to find out and influence "the arising of their" feeling.

According to Dr. Dung, this extending will affect the well-being and the sustainability of the family. When entertaining, people will distracted bedding life with your partner, so long into the habit can no longer feeling with the other. Though "insiders" have tried to argue that it is a normal phenomenon, you can not avoid the mood suppressant, suffering.

In this case, according to Dr. Dung, by understanding and delicate, you should find a way to share with "the other half". Also "best room" is each person needs to have the "sexual intelligence", the sensitivity to understand, know what's like what, mate, share, find how to fix it. Bear solutions do the float can not solve the problem thoroughly by a person will suffer disadvantage and always feel inhibited. At best, if feels impossible to solve, you look to the expert or doctor about sex for help.=