4 things women absolutely should not change because man

So, when love, sister need to know to keep "the identity" for themselves. And here are 4 things that my sister absolutely should not make though for someone you love.

1. Give up your dreams

Everyone has dreamed of, for example, became a teacher, student or later becomes a successful businesswoman. You, too. Sure you will have your own dream. Please keep awake the dream that whether you had a lover and he wants you to abandon his dream. Maybe he will Institute several reasons such as: the profession that doesn't fit you, it is very difficult or simply he does not want you to do ... to you to do what he wants.

If you listen to and abandon the dream of his to make, he will have fun but you will not be is yourself. You will do things that you don't like and what's important is that you feel like you're living the lives of others. This will prevent you from promoting themselves and increasingly becoming blurred.

2. Change the external appearance towards the positive.

Just because your hairstyle like Victoria, gu fashion Cameron Diaz that he forces you to change to like them even though everyone knows that your body doesn't match the style. In those cases, you need to vigorously oppose instead follow because want to gratify him. Maybe he will happy to see you hear but you will then become a downright ridiculous in the eyes of others.

Your body is yours and you have permissions to change it in any direction. And the love you have to respect your body. Therefore, he has no right to force you to change the direction in which you do not like or towards the positive. That is why you have the right to reject the change of external appearance as required of him that you don't want. If you change the direction of Nice up the very proud, but direction may cause he soon felt bored you whether he causes you to change.

3. cut off time for friends, family to the side who love

Don't turn him into his unique life purpose and all your time Fund only revolves around him. Please respect his private life with the family time, friends. Not a few men feel uncomfortable when people love always appear next to him wherever you are. They need private time and so do you.

Smart woman is known to split logical time for lovers, friends, family. Moderate attention to he will relieve pressure and help him stuffy. He will also evaluate you are friendly, sociable and flexible in every relationship.

4. Let him control you

Just because want to prove who is the "curious" that you accept to do everything under his control, not to do what he does not allow his speech and as able as "saints" for you.

If you lose the ability to control themselves so then accidentally you have self nhiến her into a living person based on him, can't think or decide any matter. At first, he will treat you as "docile cat" at the party but he is growing increasingly bored and even ashamed to bring you to the public, meet friends, family ...

More importantly, you've lost yourself and become a person who does not have political views, no personal opinion, personality, its own identity. From there, the respect of you he also gradually reduced over time.=