Things to do with old lover

1. Respect the resolution of the enemy

There are plenty of reasons to both can not continue the story of love. Don't care who's fault, just remember that you really love, then whatever you are, you have as to how they will still love. So if the enemy had solution separation, meaning with them you don't matter.

Please respect their choice, as well as keep myself self-esteem, pride in the end. So, instead of crying, hold or bother of life together, you make an appointment with him for the last time (but absolutely not talk about was over, absolutely do not cry) so they feel confident, beautiful picture of you. Say thank you to them for letting you know what is love and sorry for perhaps yourself not good enough according to what he imagined for him to decide to let go of the hand.

When returning home, if you take a sad cry, if you find yourself wanting a quiet space. Then for yourself the good things as try changing hairstyles, a trip with friends, family; buy a beautiful, expensive items which proved you wish to donate themselves. Believe that you deserve good things.

2. Don't call your phone for any reason

One of the mistakes of the us is not restrain ourselves to texting, phone calls, for ex. Messages, messages at each other, asking, what will your love calls makes people savoring Rapture; but things will completely change when both nothing of each other anymore. Even, the message, your call will make people feel the pressure, even feel disturbed. So good for you delete the phone number of one of your contacts, delete all messages of people to not read it read it again ... Be tough on yourself and seriously to forget a love affair was over. Know that very difficult, but you will do it, because you don't want to become a burden in your life who, as well as don't want to be someone who hates you, especially someone you once loved.

If he calls active, IM asking, please answer that you live well and do not forget to ask about the life of the enemy.

3. Spent good things to say about each other

Many young couples after the breakup is often turned to the defames another, even the password on Facebook, prompting both became the subject of Gossip "her Society of eight"; become a laughingstock in the eyes of the people. Remember that it is the person you loved, you said what you other bad they admitted the emotionally spent for such a person? So when someone asked about the emotions of both, please smile that says you're not good cause he must go, and also don't forget to spend a lot of praise for the enemy. Doing so will prove you are mature, responsible and absolute respect for the person you loved.

4. Smile because of what had passed

You've been crying a lot, was sad a lot, but can not be sad forever, crying forever. Let's draw the lessons for the past relationship, please smile because it happened, you have met and loved a person as such. Let him birthday quietly texting on a mailbox, the inbox to Facebook's birthday greetings, let people read it or not. If the two meet again man keep smiling instead of what you want to say. If not, why not also meet again, do not dismay, open yourselves and take the opportunity for who. Will definitely be a good person and respect people, your love, is waiting for you ahead.

With family and friends

1. Don't try to overcome this suffering alone. You still have friends that they will help you by sitting listening to you mind and give you useful advice. If you are love in time is hanging with friends trót then please please ignore them. A true friend will forgive you and always wants to help you overcome this suffering. But remember, don't mind those you also with your old lover, inadvertently they will make things worse.

2. Be positive to meet and talk with friends, relatives. Expand your world you will see he/she no longer is all.

3. Don't pretend to be two people still love each other and do not try to conceal his true feelings that make the Center a real way with friends and relatives. They can only help you when they really know how you're feeling.

4. Remember to carefully one thing is always have people interested and willing to help you, both in the moment you thought that no one at all.

5. Don't ask your friends about tracing ex: he/she are, what you're doing, ... You forget that person go.=