Smart women must remember to forgive their husbands once and for all, but the second is foolish

Men have a couple sometimes not simply because of their needs. They may have an affair for the following reasons:

Men have the psychology of strangers, want to learn new things. Even if the wife is in bed and is a great lover on the bed, it is not possible to prevent husbands from 'hungry appetite', and delicious food will be bored.

At Rutgers University, they have studied that up to 56% of adultery men are to be happier in their married life. The husbands of them are satisfied with what they have about family life, wife and children but still want to go to bed with another woman while being warm with her wife.

There are adulterous men because of loneliness and lack of love. Family life worries, care for children, domestic and foreign affairs makes wives forget a 'big child' that needs attention. Men who do not have a wife share the pressure, when talking, they only listen to nagging about the problem of hot money for a long time to get bored and go out to find pleasure outside.

For men who do not deliberately adulterate but for a few moments of unable to control their emotions, they have done something sinful to their wives. Because friends ask, because alcohol leads the way, because the body instinct overwhelms the eyes. There are really regretful men after 'peeling off the cake'.

For men of this type, wives should forgive once. Because in this life, everyone has mistakes. And in marriage, we must go through suffering, human wrongs to appreciate the happiness that we have.

There are also women, even if their husbands are happy to buy outside, they cannot be forgiven. In their jealousy and hurt they decided to let go. But then, after the family broke down, the couple separated and they absorbed the broken pain. And many times they wish to have the opportunity to be redone, to be forgiven. Therefore, our women before deciding to let go or give their husbands a chance to think carefully.

Women forgive once for their husbands because of tolerance and love. But if men do not know wrong, knowing that the error continues to betray that woman forgives is stupid. Because men know how to love their wives, cherish the family will not be heartless to hurt their wives again and again. Many men who see their wives forgive once again think that their wives are weak, weak, and dare not leave, so they continue to do wrong.

The woman was betrayed by her husband once, that pain was not certain until the end of her life. No matter how many times my husband betrayed, how big is that pain? Although knowing that the family is important, although loving the children, even though the family is very enthusiastic, he forgives the husband that he does not know how to apologize and should let go. Second forgiveness means giving hands to the husband to hurt me more times later.

Understanding the mentality of adultery men, women should know how to handle calmly, smartly, change in a positive way to keep the family happy fire.