Want to be 'the State'

This year I have 27 years old. I have had lovers, we love each other more than two years and plan to marry next month. But that plan has been cancelled, by parents who love you do not agree, the reason is because I'm not the person to the State.

You and your boyfriend have already explains that do where also was closed for health insurance, the society alike, but his mother still won't agree that retained the standpoint like to marry must be the State.

We love each other was 2 years ago, I worked for a State Agency. But the real fun is the work in which the very boring and I feel I do not promote the ability of ourselves. The work is too disengaged, should also not be much revenue, just over 3 million/month. So I decided to leave the State, for a private company to do about communications the salary twice and also more pressure. However, I accepted because I feel that is a professional work environment, and in which you can promote all of his ability. Families, parents are very supportive because you decisions. My boyfriend is also very supportive of the decision. But my boyfriend's family is not, they used it as an ignorance. The most recent time I have to visit his family and was also to talk wedding of the children and her boyfriend, his mother was asking about my work, and I also said I had moved out to make a private company rather than work in State agencies. See I told mom he was unhappy and asked me why. I have explained to him is because the work in State agencies are very boring, low income again. Work in which I feel does not exert power themselves, ... but he is suppose to do in private companies, no long-term stable, people don't like getting it then later on they pursue. Many baby with no job, so for me the decision returned to the job, the State agencies have the wedding, if still makes the most private companies not to get married with the son she. EM and I love explains to his mother that he made in the State or private companies now are all the same, also the premium and have the same mode so there is no distinction. Moreover, private companies do back higher than income, and in which their ability to be more development, more useful, but his mother still won't agree that retained the standpoint like to marry must be the State.

More sad is that people love you, he did not agree with the views of his mother but also do not dare argue parents, should also back to abandon your current work for a State Agency to make stable. The State agency that he, you know, leave and then someone stepped right in. Moreover, not a want is pleased to now, so I don't know how to explain to my mother for my lover to understand anymore, no more common than for this that I lost the love of yourself? We wish you, please give me an advice? I sincerely thank.  =