10 how to deny the enemy cleverly

You delay the answer proves you are a person who know think rather than superficial, in that time still keep in touch with. Furthermore the enemy also understand that you have lost long time recently decided to deny, i.e. you may also wonder, hesitant, rather than repudiate harsh. You will be more sympathetic.

2. "that's a good suggestion, but unfortunately too..."

Let's praise a sincere way, then sorry for not able to agree. For example, your friends want you to go to the Festival after the end of semesters, you can say: "I love to go extremely relevant sessions, at which the air must be lively class, not like at school. But unfortunately too, this week she could not walk, we met on the long lasting layer ".

3. "I judge you very high, just like to work/chat/share with you. However... "

When you praise someone, you have to appease a part where their discomfort when you reject. Whether the following statements you have refused, they also don't pay attention very well, they just remember your compliment. Such as if a colleague thanks for you work, don't rush refused to, make that: "before I know you are a very professional work. If is made to help you, I will learn a lot of things. But I fear I can't handle your work. It is not true to his roots ". There when you don't need to say the following statements, just praise, as they change the decision and do not need you help.

4. "I can't do it because not allowed"

Instead refused point-blank, find an objective reason, proves that "not I don't want to, but because the circumstances required, I must either reject you". Of course the reasons you give are reasonable and convincing. Such as: "can't go out this afternoon was, I have to go home tomorrow, check out", "I can't let you borrow the phone , while his mother will call check" ...

5. "I love to make friends with him rather than her lover, because he is a good friend"

Don't answer immediately that "I don't like her joke!" because that will make people sad. Give her to a country, fun chat as the two of you, then straight into the problem that, for you, it was nothing special than other normal friends.

You can say, "I love doing that loop you in with him rather than her lover, because he is a good friend. When would he have United, then tell me, I will also tell him the other half of me... "

A smart person would understand the things you want to say, and know that although 99.9% but has failed in his enemy's heart is still a good friend then well enough to offset the pain ... broken-hearted portion.

6. "I'm sorry", with reasons

Let him see that you have great dismay and difficulty when rejected. At the same time outlined his own reason. The frankly and decisively will cause the enemy to trust you, you do not need to understand anything more if you have your own reason.

7. "He's too smart, attractive, famous than you"

When had planned these flattering will never going nowhere. You will can safely step out the door, while dull guy out laughing and imagine himself as James Bond. Even better when he can repeat the explanation with his friends, and they'll have to nod sympathetic and say "Yes!".

8. "that does not suit me, I can't answer right now"

Please answer this question with a definitive attitude, if you own can not say out. You can help him by any other occasion to "offset" them. This sentence can be applied when you want to deny the word of love.

9. "uh ... no!", with a friendly smile

If someone wants you to do something for them, but you can't, please answer this question. May apply if the enemy not with you. Make "Yes" then stop then answered, to find him, you also have to waive bloopers.

10. Do not "love in the reluctant"

Bloopers before what it was because you too much, feeling indebted to motivate you to want to give thanks that by ... accept his love everybody? Or when you are no longer a way to reject feelings of people so I suppose ... biting teeth bear the "love in the reluctant"?

Don't be confused between love and pity if you do not want people to suffer serious injury when realized you only want to pay back what he has given you.=