3 expensive lessons of a woman whose marriage is about to die

Never forget to love your body

After giving birth, I naturally became fat. After my two children were born, I could barely control my weight. I kept ignoring the thought of sacrificing to give birth to grandchildren to my husband and parents-in-law. I deserve to be acknowledged and appreciated for that sacrifice. But in fact, I myself feel bad, how much more is my husband? Having a baby, being a mother is a natural function, no one presses me, and beautifying myself is my own duty.

And because of my inferiority with my stout body, I no longer want to buy nice, sexy clothes when sleeping next to my husband. Instead, I look more sloppy. I also have a regret of women's money when I have children. At any time, I became an ugly, ugly 'mother' in her husband's eyes.

Neglecting myself, not loving my body makes me push my husband to love. The money I regret is not spent on me, my husband offers it to my mistress. This proves that men are willing to spend money to admire and love beauty. So why don't I use that money to make me more beautiful, loved by my husband?

Love will have a poetic moment

The intense passion in love will end soon after a year of marriage. But don't be so disappointed about the man you chose. This is just a change of course when love enters marriage. Instead of the original poetic romance, love will bring a realistic color and more responsibility.

This is also the time when you need to reheat the previous open lakes. It's just that, unlike when you love each other, now you need to heat the love in many other ways, especially in that. Need to understand needs, share wishes with each other. Remember, your husband will have to be your best partner in marriage. And you have to be a woman who provokes and attracts her husband.

Never give away too much without getting back

My husband and I used to sit back to frank about our marriage and there were things that surprised me. He said that he had a feeling I didn't need him, because I did everything. In my home, seeing that I don't need him to do anything, he finds himself useless. What you want to do for me, I refuse. What I think is expensive, frivolous, he really wants to give me. Since then, he was soft-hearted in front of the woman who gave him a feeling of wanting to cover them.

At that time, I couldn't help crying. There are actually things women we think we have done right, spend what is best for our husband. But not that, men do not want to marry a wife too strong and do not need them to help. They also do not require the wife to be perfect. What men need is a wife for them to cover, and can give them support when weak.