I was frustrated and resentful when my mother-in-law said: The strawberry has not been paid for the mother's house

I have been married for 4 years, now have a daughter. My parents-in-law had 3 children, two of my husband's first brothers were married and bought a private apartment, and my husband was the youngest, so after we married we lived with our parents-in-law. People say that their daughter-in-law lives with her mother-in-law in many conflicts, at first I was worried but tried to yield. Especially love my mother-in-law like my own mother. Fortunately, several years of living together with my mother-in-law are very harmonious.

My husband and I also worked in the economy, and the couple contributed VND 15 million. Every month, I still pay 5 million for my parents-in-law to pay for living expenses. My wife and I go to work all day, only have dinner.

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But two days ago, my mother-in-law suddenly asked my wife and me to sit down and she complained that the 5 million husband and wife I gave was not enough, now that they have retired, so the pension is also very small. Wanting us to give her another 2 million, at that time I didn't say anything, my husband was also silent. I was really a bit worried, because it was the time my mother-in-law wanted my wife and me to take care of everything in the house.

But I was dissatisfied, because my parents-in-law were not my husband's children, there were 2 brothers. They were both wealthy, bought apartments to buy houses . but their mother-in-law kept complaining to my wife and me.

Every month, my mother-in-law and I have to accumulate some money for the couple. Even when my mother was hospitalized, I only dared to sneak in my mother's money. This is the extra money I can make. Then my mother-in-law did not know why she knew this. She had no conflict with me, now she brought me out and said:

- Women and girls who have married must take care of their husband's house and not to take care of their mother's house anymore. The old people had an excellent price statement, the death-row son, I went to get married, my mother threw rice salt at the gate to see me off but not tossed in the house. That is, I can only take care of my husband's house and not take care of my mother's house anymore.

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At that time, I was resentful, so I argued against my mother-in-law, because I thought that whether it was a girl or a son, it was not different from whether I was married or not. The other part thinking about my mother is that I really love. My mother was widowed since she was 25 years old, and she raised me and her sister alone. Now my mother-in-law also told me that I could not take care of my mother's house. Like this really is not my heart.

My husband was originally very loving with his wife and children, but when he was in that situation he listened to his parents. In my husband's eyes, my parents are always No. 1 whether true or false, and my wife and I are only 2nd and 3rd bosses. I'm really bored with my husband's thoughts, what should I do. Just being afraid of being unbearable, you must divorce.