The little girl threw her newborn to the balcony: Mother coldly knew the cause of the unintentional words of adults

This is the case with Ms. Tian's family - a middle-class family in Wuhan City, China.

After giving birth to the second son, the whole family was busy surrounding and taking care of the baby so he did not pay attention to changes in his first 8-year-old daughter. Every day she comes home from school, she often feels self-pity because she feels that no one cares about her.

At the peak of one day, a neighbor picked up the girl from the school and on the way this person joked, " I am already out because my parents have a brother ." Immediately, the little girl sobbed. The neighbor did not expect this joke to be the trigger.

The next day, while Ms. Tian entered the bathroom, asking her daughter to look after her for a while, the disaster happened. Just entering the toilet, Ms. Tian heard a horrifying sound. Running out, she saw the big daughter crying. The frightened girl looked down at the building and she trembled in tears: " I have you, I don't love you anymore. I threw you down ." The mother cried before the great pain for her family.

Experts warn 'rubbing' jokes on young hearts

'Your father has auntie'

Many adults like to tease children that the father of a child has a wife, auntie and even a certain name (a neighbor, a father's colleague, .) to joke that it is 'Dad'. Behind the laugh of adults, is the child's anxiety and anger when thinking that having a 'third person' cuts into family happiness. Not only will children lose confidence in their father, but they will also create their own prejudiced prejudices against that 'uncle'.

' There is going to be a baby and prepare to leave!'

The 4-year-old baby broke his brother's arm because he was teased by an adult in the edge of Wuhan, China, a warning bell indicating how horrible the joke was. When a family prepares to welcome a new member, all attention is usually put on the baby who is about to give birth, the other child inherently feels self-deprecated, and this frightening joke adds to the mind. The reason of hating children and sorrow for not being concerned.

'I am an adopted child, my parents pick up trash .'

The thought is only fun for adults, but it can cause children to be frightened and skeptical about their identity, causing them to worry about whether they are children of real parents. or not',

'When do parents chase me away', 'parents don't really love me' . Obsession doesn't just appear right away, but it can last until later, when children grow up .