What to do when the kid too clinging mother

About 8-10 months of age, babies begin to learn new things, started out about the split temporarily, but absolutely do not want to accept that.

At this age, children begin to develop a relationship with people who spend a lot of time for the side of kid and the baby will only feel safe in your arms take care of that person.

There will be little time even for parents, or anyone who would trust her to be hugged, or hold the Bong.

Baby too young to understand the concept of time, and also did not know that the trusts will return in a few moments, so the baby will be very painful, and responded by crying, screaming. So how far the story is familiar with Baby Mama in a period of time, the parents try these ways see ya:

If the mother is the primary caregiver for the child, then the father should also spend as much time as possible to the side of kid, so, when 1 out of 2 people away still feel safe and don't feel abandoned.

This will help the baby feel confident and realize that there are many other people who also care and baby care rather than only 1 option only is three or the mother.

Besides, on the time period for this routine, the mother baby (baby care) should leave the baby a short period only and will slowly stretching that out. Should not abruptly leave the baby in a long period of time, otherwise the child will worry, fear because thinking her mother away.

After some time, the baby will get acquainted with the "replace", accept the care of this "alternative" and people will no longer pay attention too the primary care or more.

Set of routines for baby when mother prepared away from the baby. The leave should be done in a positive way as kissing goodbye, smiling or waving with the baby and teach babies also respond as such. The repeated this routine will help baby to know when his mother made such actions i.e., parents will go out at a time and will soon be back with the baby.

At the same time with the measure on, then the parents should also regularly leads to public places such as parks, supermarkets, libraries or just wander around in the baby area ... to focus on exploring new things instead of sticking already retrieved. Exploring the world around is not only helpful to the development of the baby which also helps parents already are not retrieved.

If the baby too clinging mother, the mother can also apply for the baby to play with other children to learn computer sociable, bold ... The same play with babies the same age will also help baby to outsiders parents at nostalgia parents away. At the same time also help baby develop communication skills, play with you with ...

If this is still not effective ways I don't rush into worry, maybe I was not ready for that.

A little larger, baby will adjust, especially when there is little time and condition to explore new things around him, then her choice is not required.=