Discovering his wife with stranger boyfriend over the phone

My wife is always telling me about the value of family happiness, about the two words "adultery", because before I had once betrayed his wife, while she was on a business trip I dated a girl in love with her. We just stopped in the Center and embrace each other. My wife knows about jute and grit, I the same people for a long time. I accept, the error because I received an urgent wrong and try to fix by hard work, take care of my family to get back the confidence of his wife.

Recently, I once borrowed a phone to call his wife's friend (because of my new machine out of money). I am tall people when just holding the air, smashing into my eyes is the chat of his wife with another man. Because she had just come from work, make subjective yet escape because the couple I promise each other not to check the phone. This person my wife know the recent work, true to the period I betrayed her. I've never up read but also sufficiently stunned by these quotations from plain love, longing, dating each other.

I turned to ask, she startled, rush was so enraged that retrieved the phone. I won't take, says if there is nothing to hide. A contraction of the phone so enraged she automatically locked again, I ask the password she won't say. My wife said no as I think, that people like her nothing. My wife says by the time I don't mind sharing, do not listen to her mind the lot, plus many families between my wife and grandmother, life sucked, should look pleasing her needy before the love shared by the other man.

How shady relationship when his wife with strange men?

I said if only like that will be ready to forgive, say the password to me reading the pitches, but she still not agree. So behind the other password is what? What's the secret that she couldn't tell me? Why she doesn't show me to prove everything's not as I think? Normally if nothing, surely she will put both the phone for me to see, this is different. So the more I more suspect before her action.

Though having said that said again, including threatening her eventual also does not give me the password, that his insistence is only talking about family, find the share, see vibration and promised to never again. I said you can make mistakes, people nobody's perfect, so I don't suffer more mistakes, he promised to forgive, for me the chance as if real with him, but she does not hear certain.

Please give me advice what to do at this time, my mind is confused, tormented because of not finding a solution to end this suspicions. "He ate rolls, she eat nem", now I'm experiencing the consequences?=