After 3 years, the decision to divorce the husband to return to live with the lady is I too stupid?

My husband and I have been married for over 7 years, family economic conditions also have their own to eat. With outsiders, they looked at me thinking that I was happy, having a loving husband, my parents were psychologically reunited. I am really happy, but 4 years ago, now . just feel salty and hurt.

My husband is a joyful man, always friends above all. He even values ​​friends more than his wife and children at home. I advise, to say the end of all the water, but the husband still knows what is wrong. Boredomed, I did not bother to talk anymore, just going home from work to care for my children and my husbands.

Because of that, my mother-in-law repeatedly scolded me and said: "I don't care if my parents don't care about my parents, but my husband and I have to pay attention, don't let me have to be too heavy." I was very sad, because my mother-in-law did not understand it was me who needed to be concerned by my husband, but I did not bother to explain to my mother-in-law, to be sure to let it go.

Three years ago, I discovered my husband was in love with a young, beautiful woman. When I found out, my husband did not ask for forgiveness, but just said: I know it is not hidden anymore, men go out and girls are common. I still love you and you, so I thought you were out and about. "I was dumbfounded by my husband's statement, he had an affair but did nothing wrong. Perhaps because he was too in love with her husband, I want to keep my father for my children, so I close my eyes and let go, I think my husband will only play for 1, 2 times and he will stop.

But not, with nearly half a year, I discovered that my husband was still going back to that woman. I threatened to tell the truth to both parents that my husband promised to cut it completely . But then the horn on my head did not go away and grew more and more . my husband continued Wire with the other woman. Compared to my wife and children at home, with my husband, that beautiful young lady is all of you.

My husband told me that it would be over, but the other lady refused, she kept clinging, reading the intimate messages, confessing her husband and wife's husband and wife that I was in pain. I realize that marriage that a person tries to build, cultivate, and the other person is indifferent, wants to break it will certainly never be sustainable. Having turned a blind eye to my husband's betrayal, I was the most miserable. For 3 years I suffered injuries when having an adulterous husband. Now I'm tired, lost faith in marriage . and I want to end everything.

I will divorce, I should have done this earlier. There is nothing wrong with being single mothers, and there is no way to worry about children. It is better to be free but happy and try to work every day to make money to raise children, perhaps more peacefully. It is true that I do so, sisters, please give me more motivation.