After giving birth, I was frightened by my wife's goldfish brain, but she loved her even more

My wife is 26 years old, I'm 3 years older than her. We love each other for 4 years to get married. Talking about married life, I deeply love my wife, the couple live in harmony, we have never loudly spoken to each other at all.

When I got married, my wife was very careful, meticulous, she did whatever I was relieved. But since my birth, my wife completely turned into a different person. She is very forgetful, do not remember what to do. Previously my wife scolded me for not paying attention to what I did, but now it's my wife's turn to forget more than me. Once the pot of fish, she ran to take a bath, as a result, the fish caught fire, or she was holding the phone in her hand and kept searching everything for the phone. Then I carried it in my hand and she shouted: "Dead, I forgot where I am"

At first I thought my wife only pretended to tease me. But she worked more and more without paying attention. The first time, the second time, I didn't say anything, but the furniture in the house felt like my wife was breaking almost, making me extremely depressed. I feel like she even forgets my husband.

My wife's mind kept floating like that, even though she had just finished eating, after a few minutes she asked her husband innocently:

- Have you eaten rice yet? Looks like I haven't eaten yet.

I could not help but give her a few words to exaggerate, and she quietly carried me into my room. It was the first time since I married about my wife, and we did not sleep together. All night I was unable to sleep, I felt extremely sorry for my wife. Blame me why you scold my wife.

I sat up and opened the computer to search google about my wife's expressions after birth, then she knew that it was a sign of reducing memory of women after birth. When pregnant women, 90% are suffering from memory impairment, especially in the last months of pregnancy, high levels of pregnancy hormones affect brain activity, making the brain more stagnant and heavy than enen. causes 'goldfish brain' phenomenon.

At this time, I regret deeply, my wife has a heavy burden of giving birth, giving birth to me, so she suffers from it. I blame myself for being a husband and I don't care about my wife. Maybe my wife is also very miserable, she does not want to remember when I forgot like that. I also saw many cases where the wife was born because of fatigue, a heartless husband that led to depression. At this time, I was extremely worried.

Without thinking much, I ran into the room to hug my wife and burst into tears:

- My wife, I'm sorry, you're wrong. You shouldn't scold me .

My wife heard me speak and tears welled up:

- I didn't mean it. I don't know why my brain kept forgetting. From tomorrow I will write down paper to work to help forget.

- No, I have no errors. From now on, if I forget you will remind me. But I just rest, take care of my child. All the rest is for you to do. I just need to rest, I will end up with the 'goldfish brain' for a while. Don't worry wife.

I hugged my wife tightly and felt happy and happy because of what my wife had sacrificed for my father and son. Saying that I will be more concerned about my wife from now on, my wife, who is not loving, will not wait for the other person to be right, guys. So if you have a wife, don't stop loving her.