'Equal with'-a 'hard shifts' of women Free!

The day is not yet married, my mom told me that need towards equality. In it, women have the right to work as men, and (of course) of enjoyment as well as men. Literally not talking cheap contempt because his wife wife husband have/doesn't make money. There's the woman doing nothing also need to consult with her husband and waited for my husband to agree. There, the household well respected as family.

But in my house, I saw my mother by the look for a super human. Parents go to work like you, earn money at par with dad (maybe even more), but everything in the House, from the Palm to the Clothesline toalet, from teaching we learn to post up right on the morning of 5 to prepare new day for the whole family, parents are completely fulfilled. Dad never worked. The late hours is beer foam, sports and ... traffic exchanges! Everything in the House, I could họe and make happy! When starting to know the perception, I asked my mother to see, there is a need to try. Mom said, don't do that, then maybe not at home and waiting for my dad to put money? I doubt that I also did not feel the parents are free in the way parents are "equal". My mother sighed, always "against" me "style do!"

Equality is a "hard shifts". (Photo illustration)

I observe the family around, most of the wives are complaining about her husband and his wife are going to do the same but the aspect ratio in the House by ti wife do. So I had like a husbands know cooking, kitchen nực will make their wives happy. But no, nothing more terrible things we have to live with "her mother-in-law" Monday. When I wash the vegetables, he does not bring out the rinse. When we cook, sit him decry formula. When I wipe, he said: "get out", and then he wiped clean house, since then onwards we have to get the "mothers second husband" then do a mirror? Think of that sweaty pit! There are 2 minutes, my old teacher share posts to facebook personally, is the story of husbands would then earn every month thousand, still wear the apron, wash the cooking Bowl. I to comment that: "Oh, I'm scared for the sample of men wearing skirts. Water rice cooker pot worried you are off, rather than him to dip into, I no longer have any value? " ...

In the end? Need to know to Cook? What is equality?

Actually, I think, when one is given equal opportunity for both men and women alike. If women want, can up the universe. But on the contrary, if they are familiar with the "pickle onions fat meat" in the kitchen! Don't catch all the women at home, all they are not rights "ho he", but also not something forced all women to work eight hours as men. External social work sometimes is an "altar" that woman "she sat up and then" climb dare not "down". I've heard my friends saying that they dare not break the stay at home because of his feeling familiar with also come up on, the work as anyone. Have lost the parents feeding the students, now suddenly at home ... I said, social prejudice and "stretch" to respect women when they stay at home raising children, then how is the equality?

I once did a friend of mine lost. When you just won't want to stay at home to take the although the money earned is also only with money going to hire people who look young. I told my sister about who hire – blindly do the mother and then to my mother again for hire. In my talk that I used the word "stupid". She mad me so long, I'm more upset! I don't see myself saying there is anything wrong. She just demanded equally who never equal with himself!

Equality with themselves! Means listen see what I want, what can make her happy: pastry wheel or the universe? Be treated in the way he expected, not according to the expected lifetime, or the reasoning would expect.

Equally, is just nonchalantly embroidery needlework, cooking set the hair, make ribbon flowers. If my husband does not like the best, please change my husband instead of changing the things that I really want to do!

Equality with themselves know stops. To home cooking, to peace with the average Tomato Pickle jars that don't bother to social stories are what we call. Is impassible wait man love me enough to love what we can do for equality, peace and impassible.

I fear for those who always "create image". That is run by the way society advocated. Would is be sure are, would be resilient, would this still be the world, this style was quite good steam again! I'm scared! Women style "monument" has always meant for yourself and the people around the incredibly tired. Not least the husband and mother just trying to do a diligent officer 8 hours, laboring back onto patch and cooking to itching all eyes with daughter-in-law if it was my husband! Rare steam not women all my life, just dare to look at you the singer that xuýt massage but don't dare to sew for her dress, and then spread the hate both those who "dare to wear" than himself. And not a few people up, is anti corporate-style good, also the House style, also satisfied the boss again pleased my husband, born quẽ, quạnh and so sleepy, not enough peace when facing themselves.

Also not rare to those who try to cheat yourself to create the feeling of "people look at themselves are very good." Just have yourself looking at yourself is not an evangelical! Inequality with yourself like that, we're also demanding equality?=

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