Should her husband or Indochinese brute love?

After my daughter was born (this year she's 10 years old), my heart closed tightly before the man. I spent all the time, emotional energy as well as on the care of children, care homes and occasionally go to charity. In the eyes of people outside, I was the perfect wife. I too no longer vulnerable to the words said, his actions. I try to avoid an argument with him in any way.

How many times I confided with the then much time they recommended I try live because of you. They wanted me to accept and endure to keep in the family. But he never changed.

I have a college degree, qualified work. Every time I achieved success in work, he proved uncomfortable and not like I prioritize things other than him. He just wanted me to stay at home doing a housewife diffusion and slow progress. I found out with my husband.

When I'm brave enough to face and talk straight about the pain, unhappiness that he caused me, then a battle rage point. Results all over me full of bruises and scrapes. Then he called for my mother and my sister told me about the procession they come because don't need me anymore. I can't believe it, my mother and my sister again sided with him. They say I'm selfish and that I have to live for.

When I'm brave enough to face and talk straight about the pain, unhappiness that he caused me, then a trạn rage point. Results all over me full of bruises and scrapes.

We separated was 7 months. Him go counseling psychology, find other people to ask for advice. Then he came crying, begging me to forgive, saying still love me and that does not even know I hurt, sometimes he's strong hands just because I don't want to lose.

He said if the divorce meant I will ruin the life of ourselves, and our daughter. And yet, he also constantly buying flowers, gift I, care, care and beg for love of me. He said that without me, him as a distraught.

During the period of separation, I met a friend. He treated me very well, for I love and unconditional sharing. I was thinking the same daughter move, independent medium-sized, ex-husband near you over and remake his life.

My husband also knows about that friend and a squid believes that because of him that I demanded a divorce. He demanded I ended the relationship with that person and think that is the solution to the current situation.

Instead of anger, I started to feel pity people I ever called her husband. When he cried, I feel guilty. I dare not definitively and find ways to dodge the issue. To the family I still recommend to wait until my daughter be 18 and then enjoy yourself. I do not want to continue my life before, but I am afraid. Don't know him will also do anything else, my family will react and fear most is the influence her daughter. My life is now totally deadlock. Please give me advice.=