3 signs that you made a mistake when teaching children

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Signs

-Baby crying insist the new toy, though not agree, in the end, you also decide to buy because the baby trade.

-You feel guilty because 10 minutes ago banned the boy eat cake. Then, you want to "apologize" by opening the Cabinet take the cake and begging baby food.

-Lack of steadfast: You have proposed rules, the baby must wash their hands with SOAP really clean before each meal. However, the next day, she called for tired, you are ready to bring the wet towels to wipe your hands, place for baby. The next day, you're still repeating this care behavior for fear the baby tired if have to go wash my hands.

-Helpful baby: You are always on the side when the kid have fun, eat, rest. She's not wearing his own clothes or be felled when cycling, timely intervention and promise that "never to work itself baby".

-Ready to meet all requirements of the baby though you can't afford: Boy wants to own the toy as a friend's neighbor, you immediately ask for information and look to buy for baby swimming diving (although this toy quite expensive compared to the economic possibilities of the House). However, are you telling yourself: "would you try to ' sacrifice ' everything Costa stars baby always be with you by friends".

-When dad or other family relatives yelled at kid, you resolutely protect the baby though was known to have errors.

-You never have to say sorry to the parents in any case. In contrast, often down to the water, appease angry kid every time getting past.

Harmful effects

-If too love, the majority will form the habit of nũng nịu, love one tree Hill back on the parents.

-Baby likes to say (or behavior) indiscriminately.

-Baby do not distinguish yourself where is the correct behavior, where are the wrong behavior. The baby always be criticized, for his is the "Center of the universe" and force everyone around to meet demands.

-Boy became impatient and easily frustrated. Babies don't want to have to try to finish the job because his parents always help.

Too harsh with the boy

Signs

-You always order with the baby. If the slow kid in the Pack, you are ready to use any item in around to spanking.

-Never give your baby to be "of the opinion". When the baby has the attitude of feedback, you attributed her attitude against and punish strong hands.

-You said that her baby was born, so of course he has the right to education in a private way baby that no one be allowed to intervene.

-You are very nỏng you cry baby: when bouncing just the hands to the face and ask the baby stop crying.

-Baby scared you. Just heard you from the door, she immediately stood up clean toys and sit on the Chair.

-You never sympathize with the flaws of the baby. The slow kid or fumble when working on something, you were quick to yelling.

Harmful effects

-If too strict, your baby will become tense, and often eluded their parents.

-Baby tend to shy, less confident in myself. Baby believe me always do wrong and sooner were his parents.

-Baby like lying to deal with you.

Too apathetic with baby

Signs

-You delivered all rights reserved baby care for grandparents or maids. Because the biggest concern with you is your career.

-When your baby wants to come near, you scare away our "Parents are busy, the other player goes out".

-You just married when the baby to sleep and said that "I do love you is so right".

-You said that babies can feel for the busy parent's frequently.

Harmful effects

-Baby desire to seek the love of other relatives, not the parents.

-Baby lukewarm, distant parents.

-The baby is cold, indifferent to everything around.=

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