Scroll to teach girls confidence

Encouraging assertiveness

In all the debate, my daughter tends to be the person to go for whatever his opinion is correct. However, right from the baby please teach your daughter how to adults about their opinion and must always hold if that that is true.

Right from the baby, his parents allow and encourage your child to express personal opinions, feelings honestly. Don't get predicament and have my punishment when I have the attitude of "controversy" back something with himself. Punishment is not the explanation of parents sometimes make the child shy, shrinking themselves and dare not speak her opinion in everything.

Praise the one

Don't praise a baby in General. Instead praise the is: "good", "good", you give baby a more specific way with each work you do, for example: "The school math very brilliant". Baby will appreciate the comment and compliment your particular attention to promoting the strengths and improve your weaknesses.

Encourage the capacity

Baby girl will easily deterred when doing a job forever and thinks its not likely to work. If the baby ask your help, instead help baby do right, let's empower baby try try to add a little character to do that. And when a successful baby, baby will really feel happy and the baby also realize that themselves have more ability than I thought.

Encourage your baby to play sports

It would be better if you motivate baby to choose for themselves a sports match and practice the sport that enthusiasm. If possible, let your baby to join a sports club, this will help your baby to increase the variety of skills not only socialskills, the collective spirit that left giũp baby balance development both physically and mentally.

Encourage a healthy body image

Magazines, music videos and advertising have lots of pictures to promote the girls at puberty there is a perfect body like so, and many girls feel confident when his body is not as beautiful as the girls shooting for the magazines, the ad clip.

Please regularly tell your daughter that, the truth the girl in the journal, the bottom line it was not like that and a body too thin as they will not be good for the health. Please encourage your child's confidence by praising your child about eating and explains to her that a beautiful body is not necessarily too skinny as her model, a beautiful body is a body balanced and healthy thanks to eating and sensible exercise daily.

Not distinguish males and females

Some girls think that these work only men can do. The dramatic weren't good. Please encourage and, if possible, let your child learn the basic skills of real life as: bulb replacement, maintenance ... things which had so far not only for "men". The emphasis with your daughter that everything there is nothing too hard, out of reach of her just because of her daughter.

Point out the important role of females

Take advantage of every opportunity, while watching the news or reading a newspaper and only give your daughter the model politician, the doctors and athletes are women ... Let me see women can still do the hard, important and can reach up to several position in society.

Only for the specific model so not only to see what the kid can do well but also evoked the conversation with your child about how the women that come to success. The specific conversation so it would be better more the words suggest that General: you must study well, hard to be as successful as them... ".

Help your child problem solving skills

"The baby will be more confident if knowing compromises satisfied everything is personal opinion baby"-Myrna Sure (author of the book little spiritual nourishment) revealed. Myrna also suggested that, should the parents of baby guide how to solve instead the help; for instance, she complained to you just because you play the shock of losing the cars beyond the playground, you should ask: "The self devised a way to regain this toy?" and wait for the baby to give answers.

"A little girl age 4 had rings Rapture ' Children will not play with you any more. I just play with me because my mom never robbed her children's ' toys. Of course, this is not the optimal solution despite the fact results are the same. At best, you should navigate to the resolution directly the problem as both will house that friend to please leave the cars "-Myrna happily concluded.

Allow the decision itself baby

If the baby is frequently put in the situation to have to choose, she will be more confident with his final conclusions. Each case is specific, you should give 2-3 suggestions and to baby; for example, instead of asking: "what do you want to eat for dinner", you can say: "I want to eat the soup bones, beef stir-fry or fried fish dinner?".

Sharing teaching methods with people

The last thing is you share the method to build confidence for your daughter with the other adults affect children as teachers, grandparents ... This helps unify the way teaching, what messages are advised the commandments will also consistently.=

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