Why do men easily to 'peak' than females?

Emily Nagoski, a renowned sex expert America, author of the best-seller book "new research is full of surprises will change the life of you" gave a solution to this problem on the Huffington Post recently.

"The pedals and brakes"

Ms. Nagoski admits, she often stumbled to this question during the patient encounter or presentations. "To find out the answer, first of all need to understand the scientific mechanism of why we can reach orgasm". This unit describes the mechanism that resembled a "dual control machine" in the brain, that two elements requires synchronous coordination with each other, the new owner can top. An element is "accelerating" (compared with pedals)-specializes in reaction to the irritation of sex and ordered the body to "boldly pursues moreover". While the elements are "slow sex", is regarded as a natural brake parts of brain, hindering the sublimation of body features for the reasons of protection.

Between the two factions, men often have more sensitive pedal mechanism, while the brakes less responsive. In contrast, females have extremely sensitive brake mechanism, while the pedals back less than sensitive. How strong and weak faction faction reached orgasm was actually not much different, but women need more stimulation as well as feeling comfortable, safer before they can start to enter the contest.

A further question is what can influence, impact this brake mechanism? According to expert Nagoski, anything can also make females were dispersed and the brake mechanism is activated. The ethical thoughts, anxieties about someone going into the room, the temperature does not match ... are considered to be the brakes. The key to solving the problem is to identify the cause of this brake mechanism in each person, and then figure out how to overcome it. Sometimes the solution can be extremely simple, kind of like go more socks to keep your feet don't get cold.=