Experts say nothing about his parents take in front of you?

American psychiatry expert Carole Lieberman said: "should The toplessness or not, or when to start avoiding change clothes in front of the child depends on the sexual mentality development stages of the child. This also depends on whether the child has the same or the other sex with a parent ".

You know to play tragedy Oedipus Rex by the playwright most famous ancient Greek Sophocles composed? The play tells of a prophecy that the son of a King would kill his father and marry his mother itself. The prophecy became a reality, despite the efforts of the King and Queen. However, it is not merely a play. The name Oedipus has been used to describe a certain development stage of childhood.

"From 3 to 8 years is the period of Oedipus, when these girls want to win the affection and attention for Dad, mom, and the boys wanted to capture the emotional parents for Dad," Ms. Lieberman explained.

She recommended that parents should avoid dressing in front of children when the 3 years (in the case of the same sex not with a parent). On the contrary, you can naturally when the same gender. "Parents still can change clothes in front of the same sex with the child until the child comes of age.

Of course this should only happen in appropriate situations, such as in the sauna, dressing room or similarly. Can say, parents and children of the same sex will be more comfortable ".

If you are breastfeeding, you would have thought more about the transient toplessness. Actually, this will be a good impact to your big kids. They will feel the baby for breastfeeding is normal, and feel more open on this issue when mature and have children. So, seeing a mother breast-feeding in public is not what matters to them.

Feeling comfortable is the key issue

You should receive the signal from the children themselves, that decide when to avoid change clothes in front of you. "If your children are aware of their body, perhaps it's time to avoid toplessness when the next", expert Kim Estes-founder of Savvy Parents Safe Kids said. "If one of the sides (or my parents) don't feel comfortable to toplessness in front of the rest, do not do so again. At the same time, if your children feel ashamed to see you take off your ceiling, you should also wear clothes on ".

Even when I don't bother about it, you should also take the time to teach them about the safety as well as personal space so you can understand the situations that occur outside the family.

"If the toplessness is not the problem of your family, you still need to set boundaries for the child. Let them understand that if anyone is not toplessness family members in front of them, that's not true at all. At the same time, nobody has the right to ask children to toplessness in front of them ".

Most of the mothers started avoiding toplessness in front of children when their son 3-4 years, likewise with my father and daughter. However, it is important that parents must respect the child's personal feelings and the education on this issue. Once both sides are comfortable, the toplessness or not is no longer the issue too seriously.=