Teach children to stay away from 'mother of mine'

Master of Le Thi Thuy Hang psychology, Association for psychological science-education Vietnam to rich young, often abducted to blackmail their parents, poor youth are arrested for selling. Mountain, rural children prone to kidnapping because the young people's Education Department are limited in depth, at least high vigilance. Before hand, the kidnappers typically Learn routine skills of the child, into easy to believe (by telling the home address, phone number, family ...), hobbies (redbud go play game, cake gifts, money ...), cases of use of violence.

Recently Phu Xuyen district, Ha Noi, discovered a child kidnapping, the suspect is Nguyen Thi Ngoc Huong, age 38, in Dong Nai province. Incense stubs see baby Told 4 years into a hospital in HO CHI MINH CITY to visit her mother should've boy toy buying guide, instance up car and then brought to Hanoi to China for sale.

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Not long ago also happened service level 7 students in HO CHI MINH CITY was abducted in the form "interviews a gift". Other baby Safety, a grade 2 in at the port to welcome the mother waiting in the field being a man launched the car to tell mom busy job thanks to you. He tells of parents name inside and some information about the family, Kid Safe trust climbed up the car.

Before that, she Reached grade 3 students, a University in Binh Thanh district in at home to welcome people to wait after school, have a man come to the milk box, ask and suggest carrying about help. Fortunately in this case, the investigating authorities are tracking area of the kid and brought home peace, not like some service children being kidnapped, even killed.

"The more modern society as potential threat. If parents fearing goin' for my son that seek to prohibit making babies lack of capital life to yourself there was ' văcxin ' protection evil ", master's Constant warnings. According to her, the greater the demand for freedom in communication society of the more powerful child, parents want to forbid stop or control is also very difficult. Therefore, it should teach and form for self-sufficiency, self-reliance in daily life. Can not always at your side you should need to guide children to free themselves, get to know the dangers should be avoided.

In particular, the need to teach children to know the high alert: Don't go alone in the dark, deserted. Go out to notice what time on, go with anyone, do anything ... Not about late at night. Not in sealed rooms alone with strangers. Do not accept money, gifts or the help of others that for unknown reasons. Don't ride strangers. Don't let strangers touching people. Don't let strangers into your home, especially in the House only to have each child. Don't let strangers know children are home alone. Do not listen to the words of strangers lead goes where or shipped back home; the case recognizes them as neighbors or acquaintances, then the child should inform the teachers know that thanks to call parents to verify. If Miss going by strangers that way often find another phone call, contact with the family, or a fixed for everyone save the coral ...

When talking to older, need to gently and how to treat young parents like you who, from that easy listening. "The young should start early, often. When the child can realize things can teach young steps is the basics, as outlined the limits when in contact with young people around or play the game, have lost situation, being strangers to wilt away, when home alone that has the problem to happen... " the master, the constant hints.

According to master of Sociology Pham Thi Thuy Anh, lecturer University of HCMC, Professional Advisory Assembly mothers, protecting the main best is teach me self-defense, help children exercise routine gradually realize the problem. So cleverly discussion with young children information articles suffer harassment, violence, kidnapped the child to remember and experience ... "Absolutely not to alone with anyone, whether it is your family's very dear. Actually there have been several kidnappings, sexual abuse children that perpetrators are relatives, friends, parents, neighbors..., "Thuy masters note.

Also according to her grandmother, parents need to teach children to fast response behaviors, such as when the parents do not have a home, not be open for on whether people knew, that call adult. When lost, call for the family or to the police, schools for help. "Parents need to store the phone number, the address of the family on the manuals, books and children's books. Should teach children from the age of six upwards using your phone and prevent invasive skills... ", master Thuy said.=

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